Ally I too felt like this when I had to leave my little girl. It is gut wrenching.
We decided to bring our baby girls ashes home. I felt such peace when she was finally home with us again. It really helps me.
I also light a special candle when I am really missing my little girl - it's my sign to her that I am thinking of her and love her.
I find it hard to know what to say because I don't want to upset you or say anything wrong and I certainly am not trying to hijack your thread I just thought by sharing some things I have done might help you and maybe you could do these things too maybe it might bring you a little bit of peace but maybe not, we are all different and cope differently there's no right or wrong. I am so sorry for your loss. You have loved your little boy so much, you have taken such wonderful care of him and are such a wonderful worthy mum - You haven't left him honey because he is forever in your heart and I am so sure he is with you in spirit right now.
Take care of yourself xx
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11-04-2013 18:13 #11
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11-04-2013 19:07 #12
I'm so sorry Ally. Sending you lot's of .
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11-04-2013 20:40 #13
11-04-2013 20:50 #14
Ally I wish I had some magic words to help you. Please know I offer you so many hugs.
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11-04-2013 20:55 #15
I'm so sorry you're feeling like this. I don't really have any thing to say that will help, but I really hope you feel better soon.
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11-04-2013 21:06 #16
Sorry for your loss.
What you feel must be totally normal, especially now that you have all those silly post pregnancy hormones racing around your body.
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11-04-2013 23:17 #17
He doesn't feel gone to me he feels far away and it hurts
I want to go back and do labour and the hours after over and over again so I can be there for him and be his mum
11-04-2013 23:48 #18
I cannot even imagine how devastated you feel right now. And I'm sorry I don't have any words of wisdom. Just know that you are free to discuss your feelings and thoughts on here and we are listening/reading xxx
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12-04-2013 00:10 #19
You are his mum. Nothing will ever change that. Oh I wish there was something I could say to help
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12-04-2013 00:13 #20
I'm so sorry ally. I know exactly how you feel. I wanted to steal my girl back after the funeral just to hold n cuddle her n feel like a mum. But you will always be Angus mum and carry him in your heart xxx
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