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06-04-2013 15:52 #11
06-04-2013 15:52 #12
How utterly ridiculous. If he is the father he will have to pay, end of story. There is not a birth control out there that is 100% effective, and pregnancy is a risk you pay when you choose to have sex.
And, on the 'trapping' issue - anyone low enough to not want to pay support for their child is certainly no catch and not worth 'trapping'. He shouldn't flatter himself.
06-04-2013 16:17 #13
06-04-2013 16:22 #14
This guy has been an absolute pr*ck. saying "I never had any sort of feelings for you", "you want money because you are jealous that I moved on"...
Mate. If you didn't want to be with her, don't have s*x with her.
if you don't want children. Use a condom.
She doesn't want your money, she needs it to support your child!
06-04-2013 16:27 #15
If she did infact deliberately trap him, I feel for him. But it's not the child's fault. Therefore yes I think he should contribute to his child.
eta it sounds like your cousin did not trap him at all and he's just throwing that in like many men do to try to weasle out of CS. If that is the case, zero sympathy from me.
06-04-2013 16:31 #16
If the child is his, he has to pay. That's the law. I cant say i feel sorry for him- He had sex. He knows sex creates babies. He chose not to take any responsibility for contraception so it's kinda tough luck IMO. Even if the woman takes the pill religiously, and the man wears a condom, there is always a tiny sliver of a chance. Everyone having sex should know that!
06-04-2013 16:33 #17
06-04-2013 16:50 #18
No one made him hve sex with her and regardless wether she was on the pill or not he should of made sure prior to dtd with her. If she can prove its his yes he will have to pay cs
06-04-2013 16:55 #19
06-04-2013 17:01 #20-
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it sure is a catch 22 with the other thread. If he doesn't want to pay child support because he left the contraception trust in her hands, then it's his own fault. He should have worn a condom reguardless. BTW..come 'flings' aren't ppl worried about STD's...shouldn't a condom be worn anyway??
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