Thanks ladies. Im meant to go on a cruise ship wedding and if I amnpreg now I wont be able to go because their cut off date for traveling is 24 weeks. But ill be very happy
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03-05-2013 21:35 #351
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03-05-2013 21:41 #353
Could you please put my down for testing on the 18th!
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04-05-2013 03:25 #356Senior Member
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I have been away from BH for a couple of days because of other issues that I now can't sleep over. They are business related, not as emotional or important as TTC issues, but draining and consuming nonetheless.
i see my last post may have caused upset. I was actually thinking of one particular friend, my oldest friend, who had no trouble conceiving and just didn't say anything because that's what you're 'supposed to do'. She didn't and hasn't suffered a loss, but of course she may have been scared nonetheless. As a close friend, if a loss had occurred for her, I would have hoped to be there as a support for her just as I thought I'd turn to her if I found myself in that situation. When she didn't say anything I felt like she would not want my support and so thought less of the friendship than I did. Does that make sense?
More importantly, when I posted I wasn't thinking of those who have sufferered losses and understand how that changes the approach to who you tell.
I hope that makes some sense - I don't mean to rehash the issue, just to hopefully explain and apologise. The generality of my post was insensitive, and I'm truly sorry if I upset or offended any of you.
04-05-2013 06:12 #357
Fx , I suggest a better test now that there is a faint line!
Me -30, DH -30, DS -7, DS -5, DS -2 and UTD with #4 Due Jan 2014
04-05-2013 06:24 #358
I understand your feelings on this but still think you shouldn't be hurt (although easier said then done). Again, TTC and pregnancy is an incredibly personal experience between a couple and what they've decided together kind of trumps everything else. If she ended up miscarrying she very well may have turned to you if she needed. Just because she didn't doesn't mean she wouldn't have nor does it mean she thought any less of your friendship. It also doesn't mean she wouldn't be there in a heartbeat if you needed her or wanted to share your news.
I just think its all an incredibly personal topic between a couple and we really have to respect our loved ones choices on it.
Have you told her how you felt? Maybe that would help?
PS--I'm having trouble sleeping right now as well (the past few weeks) it's awful!
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04-05-2013 06:28 #359
Ricepudding, I was just trying to explain to you why she didn't tell you. I had a surprise healthy pregnancy with dd and only told our parents before the second trimester. 2nd time, we were more relaxed and told a handful of friends and family... I had to tell them that we lost a baby. It sucked!
Next time, I'm not even announcing to my friends, they will guess sooner or later. It's nothing personal towards them.
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04-05-2013 09:16 #360
So I tested again this morning...I know, I am THE most impatient person. I'm not even due to test until the 6th and last time we were pregnant on the day of my period the line was incredibly faint so I'm not sure why I would think a line would show up 4 & 2 days before but I can't help it! I desperately want to see that line and I'm not sure if my mind is playing tricks on me or if I'm experiencing a few symptoms. I'm still having EWCM which I normally wouldn't have after my fertile period is over and I am also have ovulation type pain and very minor cramps. I NEVER have menstrual cramps so I'm clinging onto this feeling. It's not painful or scary, just little slight pains in my sides and abdomen every now and then.
I found this chart of very early symptoms (not sure how valid it is): http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/...hart.php?dpo=1
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