I know everyone else has said your little girl needs some extra attention but when I read that she kicked you leaving the party I just thought I'd share with you what I probably would have done. I would have told her as calmly and sternly as possible that if her behaviour does not improve I would be sending her straight to her room once you get home and once she'd calmed down (at home) she would be doing some cleaning work to give her time to think about how poorly she is treating you and others around her. Talk on the way home would focus on yours and society's expectations of behaviour and how she is letting herself down by the way she's acting. This has generally worked with mine in the past as they hate my disapproval and also hate whatever cleaning job I give them when we get home. If they've been awful to a sibling I make them do something kind for the person they've mistreated. I think she's definitely old enough to get that you don't kick anyone, especially someone who loves you so much. I would also tell her how it made you feel to be treated so badly and that as her mother it's your job to teach her right from wrong and part of her life as a child needs to be spent listening to her mother so she can be the greatest little girl possible. Give her loads of encouragement and tell her she can do it! Um on phone so sorry if this reads a bit disjointed but I had to reply! Good luck.
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24-03-2013 15:32 #11Senior Member
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24-03-2013 15:45 #12
Do you count doing homework together and story time as 1 on1? Because after sports, homework, parties there is just hardly any time left. DH works 12 hour shifts so its just so hard!
I only let her stay up on the weekends (last night we watched hop) as during the week she is tired and she will wake up cranky if she hasn't had enough sleep.
24-03-2013 15:50 #13
She is very loving and other people comment on how well behaved she is. I think she just puts it on for me because she thinks she can. I'm going to try some of the tactics suggested and see how we go.
24-03-2013 16:42 #14Senior Member
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yep, story time counts...homework time counts if it is made enjoyable lol
Movie nights are something we do as well...special treat on a Sat night after DD has gone to bed.
The other option would be if she does not get her ****e together is to explain that you feel her behaviour is due to being tired and over scheduled and drop an activity. We are cutting back an activity next term as DS is clearly tired and I want to reduce his load...he is also very heavily into his main sport and I don't want him burning out.
24-03-2013 17:17 #15
Yes I think we will be dropping ballet after this term. It's from 5-6, a really awkward time and she isn't that into it.
I might introduce a movie night on the weekend and get her favourite treat to enjoy together. Thanks for that!
24-03-2013 17:33 #16
We have movie night on Friday night. It's a huge hit in our house.
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