I had my m/c in January and am back into ttc but I'm finding it hard to have enthusiasm. I feel so deflated and kind of like 'why bother? It will probably happen again' iykwim? Is anyone else feeling like this?
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23-03-2013 15:14 #1
For those ttc after a miscarriage
23-03-2013 15:42 #2-
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We lost our baby girl at 20 weeks in Dec and are just starting to TTC again. I don't have the 'why bother' attitude but am definitely petrified of going through it all again. Once I get pregnant I automatically have so much to loose, whereas not being pregnant sort of protects me.
23-03-2013 18:30 #3Smile :)
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Ive had 2 miscarriages in 8 months. I am apprehensive but excited about getting pregnant again. I had lots of bloods done after my last mc in Feb. Ive found out Im Vit D deficient. So Ive been researching lots and started my vit d supplements today. Apparently low vit d can cause mc. Im hoping my next pregnancy sticks. It will certainly be scarey.
Wishing you both lots of good luck and a sticky healthy bub
23-03-2013 18:34 #4
I know eexactly what you mean
23-03-2013 19:09 #5
I'm still ttc and all, but I'm so half hearted about it. I think I'm just so scared about it happening again and, like you Kirst, I feel somewhat protected from the possible repeat while I'm not pregnant
I'm in the 2ww at the moment and it just has me so stressed because I so badly want to be pregnant but I know that when I do get a bfp I'm going to be a pessimist about it all and I'm so scared that I won't bond with bub til they're safely in my arms.
23-03-2013 19:16 #6
Aw hugs xx
I had a molar pregnancy February 2012 and will be TTC in a few months.
Even though I always allow a big break between miscarriages and TTC ( have had 3 losses) I am petrified each time which is why I wait a while. The possibility of two or three losses in a year, well I wouldn't cope and I'm sure I would give up.
Once you get the all clear at 12 and then 20 weeks you will feel more bonded, I think before then it's to scary and hard to believe even after a 12 week scan.
But trust me you will be just as excited and your heart will flutter at the thought just as soon as you get that positive. I think you just get thicker skin and expect the worse though.
Fingers crossed for you xx
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