Anyone else actually scared to fall pregnant. I realise everyone has there concerns and their own negatives... but after having 2miscarriages email@example.com@12wks Im slightly terrified I wont have a sticky. Obviously no probs in falling preg but the miscarriage at 12wks was horrendous for both me (pain) & him seeing it. How am i going to stay sane if I do fall pregnant again?
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06-03-2013 16:22 #1
06-03-2013 16:30 #2Senior Member
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*hugs* it can be so scary I know. We had two ectopics and the second one was terrifying (almost died, was in hospital for a while etc) and while we so badly wanted to fall pregnant again... the moment we did I literally was frozen with fear. I kept thinking "I can't go through this again if something bad happens".
I found focussing on the postive side of things, like the fact we want a baby so bad, was the only thing that could get me through.
I don't have much advice to offer can you maybe talk to a councillor about how you feel? I know I was offered some sessions from our womens hispital after our last experience. They'd deal with women in similar situations all the time.
Good luck xx
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06-03-2013 16:44 #3Senior Member
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I am 22 weeks pregnant after having three miscarriages since my 2 year old was born, so I really know where you're coming from. I coped by telling myself "Whatever will be will be" in the first month or so...tried to not focus on it too much or get my hopes up. Then, I broke it down into milestones to overcome...dating scan with HB, NT scan, 20 week morphology scan. Now I am feeling reassured and positive and have been buying baby stuff. I still have the occasional stress but mostly I have reached a place of optimism and excitement (finally!)
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07-03-2013 14:52 #4
Got a gyno hospital blood test - i think to check with clotting etc on Monday... Hopeful that might put my mind at ease as i heard it could be as simple as an asprin a day or such?
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