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26-02-2013 16:52 #61
26-02-2013 16:53 #62
(in regards to my cheeky DH)
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26-02-2013 16:58 #63
The second is part of a wider goal- to get the message out that bf in public is perfectly legal and discrimination is not. I'm pretty sure tonight's news coverage will mention that. So another tick.
I'd say it was a fairly successful exercise so far
26-02-2013 17:01 #64
26-02-2013 17:01 #65
When someone does something wrong we automatically want to punish. But are we punishing that person or ourselves by making that person less receptive to our message because we're actually targeting the individual (when it comes to a nurse-in) rather than the attitude in our society as a whole?
I personally feel that a non-targeted, factual and non-antagonistic advertising campaign on television would have a more positive effect than a bunch of women rocking up and feeding their children in a location where someone has expressed dislike for it.
Punishment just makes someone keep their misguided thoughts to themselves. Education could actually prevent those misguided thoughts from occurring in the first place and isn't that much more preferable?
For the record I think there is a time and a place for acts like nurse-ins, but I just have to wonder if we're not cutting ourselves off at the knees by making the intention punishment rather than education.
26-02-2013 17:02 #66
I am a breastfeeder and passionate about it but I don't think either will do much good!
I would also be a bit annoyed if someone said that to me while I was Bf DS but I wouldn't go running to the media.
I can see both sides of the argument. It's our right to breastfeed or babies whenever and wherever, however i can see how some people may not like to see it. That's not to say a BF mother needs to cover up, but I do see how some can feel 'uncomfortable' seeing a bare breast.
Lets face it, SOME people are NOT that discreet. I have seen women openly let their breast hang out for a few minutes before even attempting to put their baby on. I'm not saying this woman did this, just saying I can see on some occasions WHY it would make someone feel uncomfortable.
I think all businesses need to know the rules and laws but breastfeeding mothers should be equally respectful.
That's just my tale on it
26-02-2013 17:04 #67
26-02-2013 17:05 #68
26-02-2013 17:13 #69Senior Member
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We are able to Bf anywhere anytime .. Some people will be idiotic about it .. Still we are legally able to ...so for me I don't see the point for the outrage when some moron says you can't feed....
But if you feel the need to nurse in.. Go for it
26-02-2013 17:19 #70
That's what frustrates me. It's a broad-brush response to an individual's actions.
ETA: Thinking further on it I guess the business should have ensured that they make it clear in training etc. in regards to discrimination in the workplace. I'll pay that.
But it still frustrates me when people go broad-brush when it's a reaction to an individual's actions.
Last edited by Eko; 26-02-2013 at 17:29.
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