I found this great cover that I really hope bubs will love because it doesn't cover her face but is still discreet so that no one will be able to see my ridiculous boobs
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21-01-2013 11:15 #432
Re: Nurse in at Sunrise- sydney
And when she/he is squirmimg, crying/pulling it down/sweating and overheating under it? When there are no parent rooms around/they are on the other side of the crowded 3 storey mall/they are small/full/stink of poo.. When you have other children to watch and can't just up and leave? When you havnt slept for x weeks and just need bub to calm down as you are already getting dissaproving stares from his/her noise as if you shouldnt even be there.. How inconveniant it is that your need to buy food is somehow in the way of someones coffee catchup...
So your sitting there, stressed, tired overwhealmed trying to latch your baby on under this fiddly, in the way wrap that is constantly falling down anyway..
Do you really think it is fair that during all this someone is in the right to judge you for not being more 'discreet' when you decide it is just not practicle to cover up..
sorry I dont mean this offensively I just think a lot of these opinions come from people who just havn't been there yet. For those who have and persevered for covering up, thats your choice but it shouldnt be forced apon anyone in this kind of situation and I feel that those attitudes from people who are around you is arrogant and selfish.
Sorry for bad grammar/spelling as I typed this quickly.
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21-01-2013 11:21 #435Senior Member
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21-01-2013 11:27 #436
I never said anyone had the right to judge you but they do have a right to an opinion just as you do. If they feel that you should be more discreet then they have that right to feel that. Think them ignorant or stupid or whatever you wish, but they still have the right to think it.
Let me make this very clear. I am not against breast feeding in public. You gotta do what you gotta do. Your baby is hungry and won't feed under a cloth then you don't use one full stop. I don't care either way what you do. But I do care what I do and I know that I am the type of person that will cover up just because that's who I am. Doesn't make me wrong or right. It just is.
It's lovely to see a woman breastfeeding her baby and makes me feel good but there have been times where I've seen it and it hasn't made me feel good because of the way it was done. I once had a woman at a club where I worked literally while I was talking to her, she flopped her boob out in all it's glory and breastfed bubs right then and there. I understand bubs was hungry but would it have been that hard to excuse herself from our conversation? I don't care that she was breastfeeding in our club, it's a free world but I did care that she didn't think about how I would feel about her doing it right infront of me with no warning. Even a warning would have been nice.
Anyways, I'll say it again. I love to see a woman breastfeeding her baby if I'm walking past her or what not but I didn't appreciate having that lady do it in my face.
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21-01-2013 11:27 #437
Re: Nurse in at Sunrise- sydney
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Well I wrote on his facebook wall and people are agreeing with him and arguing with me! People are so so stupid, I wish people who know nothing about breastfeeding would just STFU. Makes me want to re-lactate and breastfeed my toddlers and maybe squirt some milk on their stupid faces
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21-01-2013 11:31 #439Apparently the parenting rooms are used to advantage other people, instead of their children... My sister mentioned being in one at our local shopping centre and some guy came in just to use the toilet and do a sh!t!!! His wife came looking for him too and didnt appreciate the looks of disgust from my sister and her husband who were just trying to feed their daughter and change her nappy!!!
21-01-2013 11:33 #440
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