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16-07-2013 09:52 #711
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16-07-2013 10:02 #712
He will be at home for you when you get home.
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16-07-2013 11:19 #715
Wishing you strength today xox
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16-07-2013 12:04 #716
Big hugs Ally. I hope today goes as smoothly as possible for you.
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16-07-2013 12:36 #717
Ally I hope this isn't taken poorly because I genuinely only want to help. When you say that you want Angus to be whole and that's why you haven't filled your lockets there's another angle to consider.
Angus isn't 'whole' as such at the moment because as part of the process the water our bodies evaporates away. In that regard Angus literally is always with you, and all of us, in the atmosphere
So he's actually with you always both in body and spirit. But if you consider it from that point of view you may be more comfortable with the idea of filling up your lockets. It means you have a little physical piece of him with you that you can hold if you get stressed or upset at work, but if you don't do that then you have to wait until you get home.
I hope I don't offend with my suggestion, I just thought that a different way of looking at it might make it easier for you to fill your locket and have a little comfort for when times are tough and you're not at home with his urn.
16-07-2013 13:01 #718
16-07-2013 14:42 #719
My ex and I have a pendant each with ashes in. I could never bare to leave the house without mine. But I had zero support around me and I felt so very alone without a physical part of them near me. Had it on for 5 years and when ever I got really down I would find myself holding onto it.
Obviously everyone grieves differently and this might not work for you.
Just trust yourself and do what you feel is right.
Angus will always be with you, in your heart, your mind, your soul. For always.
Moving forward doesn't mean you are moving on.
Sending you lots of strength and love for today. Xxx
17-07-2013 06:43 #720
I felt I understood how my mum feels yesterday she has stage 4 cancer and she finds herself constantly telling other people its ok when they say something.
They say " I'm sorry about your baby" and I hear myself says "oh it's ok" like to comfort then even then it's not ok! It sucks *** it's the worst thing that's ever happened to me.
Hopefully they got it all out yesterday.
Angus 4~6~13, loved - wanted - missed
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