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07-01-2013 12:41 #171
2013...The year of BFP's!
07-01-2013 12:42 #172
2013...The year of BFP's!
Hi! Well done Elswyth, I'm sugar free too. Isn't is fantastic?
Afm---- I think maybe I have... Changed my mind?!
A few days ago an undercover Hubber started going through some legal dramas with her partner being arrested; she'd been with him for only 4 months and poor thing now has to evaluate their whole relationship. It really got me to thinking: how well can you know somebody after such a short time? I mean, my DP and I have been together 5 months. Yes, only 5 months. And we want to have a baby together, or at least try to next month. What if we are successful? But what if he's actually not the right guy to be having babies with? I already made one significant error in judgement with DS's fob. And I made a joke about my mum not thinking I could be pregnant because I put away a whole bottle of champers on NYE and she laughed and said she never thought I was pg cause I wouldn't be that stupid....
The trouble is that even with the doubt creeping up on me, I still want that damned baby. But what if??? I haven't been too thrilled about the way DP is parenting his own difficult Master 7 lately, and I'm not sure that's the attitude I want him taking with my future bubbeh.
I know you'll probs all say, if you have doubts, hold off, don't do it, there's no rush... But I wants it, girls. I wants that baby.
07-01-2013 12:52 #173Member
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07-01-2013 14:23 #174
lol gravity sucks when it comes to this! But its a nessecary evil
Mare, i read that thread, so strange, and scary. I understand you wanting another bubba, and how bad that want can be... I guess all i can suggest...... Is to keep in mind that if you are successful, could you cope with having a permanent connection to DP for at least the next 18yrs or so?? Do what works best for you and your family though, im sure you will.
LRA i wish i could give you answers, but ive only ever been on the pill...
07-01-2013 15:31 #175
07-01-2013 15:35 #176
07-01-2013 16:36 #177
In terms of whether to wait or not for a baby — I think you can trust your own intuition, it depends on what you haven't been too thrilled about with his parenting lately. Do you have huge gaping differences between your values? Or does he listen when you say things and take them on board? You'll always have disagreements about various 'things' but it's more about HOW you argue.. if you can both argue well and resolve things then you don't need to worry about the individual issues.. that's my opinion anyway
futuremama — I only drink decaf coffee anyway but apparently you are meant to give that up too.. I think I'll give coffee up if I get a BFP, with alcohol I am going to limit myself .. to maybe 3-4 drinks a week? I wonder if that's a good amount?
LRA — That is exciting about the car! Hooray for family safety and boring cars. We consolidated our cars and picked a 'family friendly' one which was super exciting. It feels good to be choosing it for your future family
07-01-2013 19:01 #178
As for how it physically feels different, we used lubricated condoms so when we stopped it made it hard when I was *dry*. I would recommend getting some Pre-Seed if you haven't started yet. I've heard it's good but haven't gotten round to getting any yet!
Hopefully I won't need it! I either have, or am about to, ovulate for the first time this year. Hopefully I get a BFP in two weeks!
I'm thinking that I might stop drinking coffee during the second week of the TWW. It's probably unnecessary but thought I'd just try this month and see if it helps a bubba stick!
07-01-2013 19:18 #179
2013...The year of BFP's!
07-01-2013 19:41 #180
Omg you bd with no bc!!! Ahh!! So excited for you. Was it weird? I have this feeling I will giggle my way through the whole thing LOL!
ive just read through and seen you've answered this. I imagine it will be gross, as in the aftermath, do you need to sleep on a towel? Or is it not that bad?
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