I hope OP can sort this out with her dh regardless.. Lying and hiding things is very unhealthy in a relationship and I think thats an issue that op will need to address swiftly in order to feel happy again.
I think bub hub posters need to step back a bit though and leave the personal attacks and belittling of one another out of their replies to op, however.. *sigh*
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14-12-2012 13:49 #91
Re: relationship issues - 30 weeks preg
14-12-2012 13:50 #92
Sorry I read you saying that you believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that self esteem plays a part in why women dont want their partners watching pron as meaning that anyone who doesnt want their partners watching pron feels that way, in some way. apologies if you didnt mean that but thats how your post reads to me.
14-12-2012 13:50 #93Senior Member
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Who doesn't watch the n@ked chip eating show? Seriously?
14-12-2012 13:53 #94
14-12-2012 14:00 #95
If you read my previous post, you'd have seen that I mentioned coming to a compromise. Which is (*I* believe) a vital part of a long lasting and healthy relationship no matter what restrictions you put on each other.
But no. It's easier to get defensive over one quick pot-stirring post (where I very CLEARLY stated that that was what I was doing...) than to actually go through and read responses that came previous to that where I gave what I thought could be helpful and considerate advise to the OP.
I wasn't ridiculing the OP, I was taking a tongue in cheek stab at someone who quite rudely indicated that she felt that men who don't watch pron are more 'evolved' than those that do. So yeah, the thought that my husband is not as 'evolved' as someone else's just because I am more tolerant than certain things than they are is quite frankly offensive.
But the interesting thing is that because my ego doesn't rely on the attitudes and opinions of others I was kind of over the slight to my husband before I even started to type this response. I just felt it necessary to make it clear that I was NOT trying to upset the OP because some people made it seem that way by quoting a flippant post and putting words into my mouth.
I guess I'm just kind of evolved that way
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14-12-2012 14:02 #96
Again, show me where I said that the OP has low self esteem? I said that USUALLY WOMEN have a problem with it because low self esteem can play a part in it. I was never dismissive of the OP's feelings! Man seriously, this gets up my nose when people make up crap in their head!!
Go back and read my posts. I actually remember even saying to the OP that I'm sorry she's feeling bad and all that jazz. If the OP is upset by what is happening then that's totally valid and I said that numerous times!
14-12-2012 14:05 #97
14-12-2012 14:10 #98Senior Member
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I actually think a dislike for the industry would have just as many women not liking it. Or just feeling off that her other half is watching @nal... there are limits, and he has crossed hers. I don't understand why talk of 'all men do it' entered this convo because it has nothing to do with the OP.
No it isn't comparing apples and rockmelons. S3xuality is a complex and very very individual thing. What is ok in your books isn't necessarily ok in someone elses, that doesn't make them wrong...or you.
14-12-2012 14:12 #99
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