Im sorry but I think you are jumping to some pretty wild conclusions here. You should perhaps add a "might be" rather than stating what you think is fact. This is her husband, she has children, a little sensitivity wouldn't go astray. There are many possibilities that could be going on here but you are scare mongering with only stating the worst.
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07-12-2012 19:25 #71
07-12-2012 19:29 #72
Wow! I was thinking of giving him he benefit of the doubt but it seems like he has already been labelled as a cheater and thats it.
Maybe its just innocent....maybe he actually went and got petrol. My DP doesnt tell me he loves me. I think I get that maybe once a year if I am lucky. And DP does get tired and doesnt want to DTD....isnt that normal in a healthy relationship?
I can understand some of the ladies on BH have been hurt terribly in the past but it doesnt necessarily mean that this guy is a cheater.
We are only hearing one side...and the OP is already very upset and from all the advise she is getting here is saying 'hes cheating, hes cheating'....plus being pregnant and hormonal probably isnt helping the situation.
OP....if I were you....and you know your husband the best out of all of us....when he comes back from getting petrol just tell him how you feel. Tell him you are scared that he may be cheating, that you are sad he hasnt made love to you in a while, that you are afraid that this person is trying to cause trouble. Just come out and say it all.
What do you think in your heart of hearts?
07-12-2012 19:31 #73
OP - none of us know your husband, none of us where there its impossible to tell you what he is doing.
Some people get a little over excited with these threads.
Please follow your instinct. Speak to your husband and try to work this out.
No one on here has a right to say he is cheating.
Please take this thread with a grain of salt.
You are pregnant it's important for you not to stress especially since there might be little to stress over.
Sit down tonight with your husband and explain to him how you feel and why you are hurt.
Best of luck
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07-12-2012 19:32 #75
Does he have something to hide?
Sorry op.. If that's the kind of reaction I had gotten from my Dh I would have had more alarm bells ringing. But that is just me.
My Dh came close to cheating on me, he had an emotional thing going on with another woman, I knew something was up, it took me a good 3 months just to get the truth..
And that was with counseling too!!
He might not of cheated yet (as in sexually) but what's to say he doesn't have feelings for her? That maybe he feels guilty about something?
Obviously you know your husband best!
But my opinions just come from what's written here.
I'm really sorry your even in the position
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07-12-2012 19:36 #78
I second what PP said...just lay it all on the table, no anger...no accusations just 'feelings'. This is how I feel...I am scared this is happening because of this.... And see if his reaction is different? Maybe he really didn't think you were as serious as you are...maybe that was the reason for the laughing and the deflecting. So maybe take two, may be better. And as you say, you can tell he's lying, he'd have a chance to get his story straight by then so you should be able to tell if he's lying the second time round.
Let's hope he comes through for you OP
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07-12-2012 19:39 #79
Does he have something to hide?
Why would he go for a drive just to get petrol if he's only just got home? Why not get it on the way home?
Something doesn't add up at all OP, hope you sort it all out though xo
07-12-2012 19:54 #80
omg this thread is bringing back so many memories for me, except i was 34 weeks pregnant.
definite alarm bells ringing all through your posts. I really hope Im wrong, but I would be extremely concerned if i were you.
deserama has some very good advice.
feel free to PM me if u like xx
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