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    ive just skimmed this thread but are there people legitimately making excuses for this???

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    Default What would you do in my situation!?

    Quote Originally Posted by ermergerd View Post
    ive just skimmed this thread but are there people legitimately making excuses for this???
    Yeah, wtf? It's never okay to do this to someone....

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    Quote Originally Posted by ermergerd View Post
    ive just skimmed this thread but are there people legitimately making excuses for this???
    Its a worry!! You'd also think if you were planning to trap a guy, you wouldn't tel people about it.

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    haven't even read the previous posts....

    you need to talk to her and then (if she doesn't) talk to the bf.
    no excuse for tricking a person into making a human being - it's a lifelong commitment, the baby/child is the one that will suffer if things don't go right.

    sorry, black and white for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by nicoletta View Post
    Yeah, wtf? It's never okay to do this to someone....
    Quote Originally Posted by Clementine Grace View Post
    Its a worry!! You'd also think if you were planning to trap a guy, you wouldn't tel people about it.
    its a really big worry that anyone could find any excuse to justify this. its NEVER ok to do it never ever ever. To deceive someone on such an enormous scale.. its frightening, and then if that poor bloke wants nothing to do with it hes a scumbag?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deserama View Post
    And without him knowing it, it's gone from unlikely to a very real possibility. He should know this. He should know that it's gone from unlikely (but possible) to almost a gaurantee.
    This this this! He's gone from deciding to rely on something that's 99% effective to almost a guarantee that he's going to make a baby without even knowing!! He needs to be told. Your friend is gross for treating another human being like this.

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    I wouldn't want to be friends with someone that could do that anyway. So I would talk to her and if she is really doing this I would tell the bf.

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    Default What would you do in my situation!?

    Thankyou everyone for your replies!!! Yous have made me really open my eyes! Tbh I am really re-considering her as a friend, this is the last straw for me...

    I'm trying to find out who else knows about her "plans" and thinking to tell him anonymously... (And hoping she's not on bh and catches me out!!!)
    I know I need to be very careful with the way I go about this matter, as she is a bit of a *nutter* especially if your on her bad side
    It really saddens me as she used to be very down to earth and genuine.... Now she's a crazy b**ch! (I don't want to sound mean, but I really think what she's doing is so so wrong! And Imo the guy should be using protection, but maybe he "trusts" her enough... Gah idk but shes making me so angry!)

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    okay, i've read all the posts....

    and one sentence -

    IF THIS WAS YOUR BROTHER, WHAT WOULD YOU DO??

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    Default What would you do in my situation!?

    Quote Originally Posted by SassyMummy View Post
    You tell her what you think in the most tactful way you can, and then you leave it. It's not your life, and your loyalty is to her, not him. At least, that's how I view my friendships anyway. Friends always eff up, so I feel unless you're going to dump them whenever they do, you've got to be loyal (unless it's something extreme).

    You can still tell her your opinion though. Friends do that.
    I would classify tricking someone in to bringing a child in to the world as extreme, jmo though of course. I couldn't be friends with someone who is prepared to be that deceitful.


 

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