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    Default Does your DH/DP look at porn?

    Are you okay with it? Does he hide it from you? How often do you think is too often to be looking at porn?

    I think my DH does probably on a weekly basis on his phone, I don't know how I feel about it to be honest. No he doesn't know I know, but probably thinks I presume he does.

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    I can't say for certain he does, I've not caught nor have I gone searching his history to find out. I have no intention of doing so either.

    He probably does. And I'm sure he assumes that I think he probably does.

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    Default Does your DH/DP look at porn?

    DH looks at it occasionally, I had to ask him because I wasn't sure lol he said only sometimes if I work late. It doesn't bother me, however if it were a daily or even weekly occurrence and he was hiding in the spare room to watch it then it would bother me. Porn grosses me out though whereas I suppose to some people it's a natural "urge" to watch it.

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    Default Does your DH/DP look at porn?

    Only when I'm not up to it which isn't often lol.

    I know because he asks to borrow my phone because I'm on an unlimited plan lol. It's rare and he's honest about it so I don't have an issue with it.

    I would however have an issue if it was a constant thing that was hidden from me or it was effecting our sex life/relationship at all.

    ETA I also occasionally watch it too and he's aware of this.

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    Default Does your DH/DP look at porn?

    No. Never.
    He's not interested and I feel very strongly about it.

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    No...he doesn't need to

    I also wouldn't like it very much and he respects that...

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    No. It's something I feel very strongly about and tbh I'd probably leave him if he did look at it. There are lots of things he does that I don't like but this ones not negotiable.

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    Default Does your DH/DP look at porn?

    I have had massive issues in the past with my partner watching porn, especially when I felt I wasn't getting enough!

    It nearly was the end of us.

    I currently have no idea if he's been watching porn as ivf has consumed my world.
    Since being newly pregnant the past few weeks I have opted not to have sex (orals ok) so I suspect he is sorting out his needs and watching porn again.

    I guess it's only an issue if I feel I'm being neglected.

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    I know my DH does because we watch it together. Even if I wasn't interested in it, I wouldn't be bothered by him watching as long as it wasn't effecting our sex life.

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    Yep. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. I occasionally look myself.

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