So move closer, sell his house.. when she is renting. He is established at a place of employment.. She does work, openly admits it but hasn't lodged a tax return and hasnt declared it to CSA. I would think that's a bit of evasion. CSA have been told but they can't do anything until a tax return is lodged, or so they claim.
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17-11-2012 18:41 #31
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17-11-2012 18:42 #33
Does anyone see his point of view? At all?
17-11-2012 18:43 #34
17-11-2012 18:44 #35
If it was my child, yes I would sell my house, change my job, it wouldn't worry me to do that. That's how strongly I feel about my kids.
17-11-2012 18:44 #36
17-11-2012 18:45 #37
17-11-2012 18:46 #38
I think you have a tricky situation that is outside of the 'norm'.
My opinion though is CS should never factor into any issues surrounding custody, but I can see the issue you raise.
Unfortunately split families are never an easy road, especially for the kiddies. It's always going to be rough on someone when two people are raising kids in separate homes. I know this from experience!
I'm sure your DH is an awesome parent and as time goes by the little guy will probably see this and want more time with him
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17-11-2012 18:46 #39
17-11-2012 18:47 #40
I can see where he is coming from (whether or not I agree).
If it were me I would take to court. Have a family report done, see what the recommendations are. The family court is not as mother friendly as you obviously believe.
If it were me I would leave the child in the school they are in if the child is happy there. I would look at moving to a school middle distance for high school as the child would be moving schools anyway.
Continue the counselling and request more contact eg every 2nd weekend and a night in the middle of the week (on the week that the child is not with him). Build this up slowly under the guidance of a professional to ensure the child is coping.
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