Whilst it helps you to vent on here it would help you both if you sat down and talked about what is going on. I have this argument with hubby all the time and we have been together or 18 yrs but i know it is because he is worried about money, in fact we had the same argument only last week as i wanna get all the xmas shopping done now instead of later. It sounds like as a couple you can work thru these issues as you explained he did feel bad for yelling and I hope your day ends better than it started