We use lots of story boards and compics and short simple instructions. DD does ABAat school as wel and at home and then over time its spilled across into out parenting in general.
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07-09-2012 21:50 #41
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07-09-2012 22:13 #43
How would you respond if your child...
explained to DS (within her earshot) why it's not ok to do those things and praised him for not joining in or walking away when he realized it was wrong. To DS' credit he removed himself from the bad behavior (there were many more examples of it) and came to sit beside me instead.
I'll see how we go next time. DS' lip was hurt (not badly but it bled) when the other child accidentally head butted him as they were jumping in his face, as well as other minor things. If DS is hurt again by behavior that isn't addressed by the mother I won't see them again. If he's not I'll give it another try in the hope that the mother or child might have a lightbulb moment.
Honestly I doubt it will happen though because it's not apathy on the mothers part, she's a very involved parent in other ways. She just follows the natural parenting ideology that praise, coercion and correction should all be avoided because it prevents the development of self regulation and leads to a lifetime of striving blindly for external validation rather than personal success. So I doubt anything will change, but I can hope!
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07-09-2012 22:41 #48
I dont smack DD but have no judgement of thoe that smack a tap on the bum but a back hander like i just discribed call me a horrible person but heck yes i would judge someone that struck a kid in that manner
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sick of the ****
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