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What a complete scumbag! Cut him out of your life. You don't need to deal with that!
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19-08-2012 16:44 #11
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19-08-2012 16:52 #12
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19-08-2012 17:28 #13
i agree with others clearly he needs the drama in his life, and it really seems that he has his new 'family' and are using them just to **** you and your mother off.
i really hope you both can find a way to cut him out as he does not sound like he deserves either of you in his life
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19-08-2012 23:10 #14
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Thanks all,
Im glad im not the only one who feels hes a waste of space on this earth.
I have actually cut him out of my life. I havent seen him for over 2 years and before this photo cr@p i hadnt had any contact with him.
I guess i just needed to vent a little bit about it, thanks for the support. I dont intend to have any contact with hi again and my children certainly wont be anywhere near him, in fact hes never even meet his Grandson!
I think the sadest thing of all is when he told me that he hopes i doe a slow, painful death and rot in h3ll, i wasnt even upset. Im so void of any emotional response to his bullsh!t, something like that doesnt even phase me! I guess ive shed my tears over it, and i shed MANY as a child growing up without a dad
Very sad! Ill i can say is im glad my DH is NOTHING LIKE him and will be a fantastic father forever!
Thanks again for the support, i knew i could count on BH!!
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19-08-2012 23:18 #15
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19-08-2012 23:53 #16
My 'father' just told me he hopes i die and rot in h3ll
Omg he is awful. You need to set boundaries with this man. You need to put him at arms distance. No one, especially not a parent should ever make u feel so miserable. He is unworthy of a loving relationship with you and your children. He is feeling some level of hurt from u too and it will need to be calmly discussed and openly dissected if you are to move forward with a relationship with him but till you are both ready I would be working out your issues with him on a personal level before discussing with him.
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19-08-2012 23:57 #17
What a horrible person...let alone a bad Dad. Who says things like that to people?? Enjoy your new life without him in it, at all, ever again.
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20-08-2012 09:24 #18
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I agree, hes so angry but the thing is, he will not explain anything. In his last message he said 'i dont need to explain myself or any of my actions to you or anyone. It has nothing to do with you'. Then proceded to say horrible, nasty things. Its imposible to have any civilized consersation with him.
Until he can get over his anger or explain why hes so angry and what ive done to him nothing will ever get resolved!
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21-08-2012 23:17 #19
My 'father' just told me he hopes i die and rot in h3ll
I think he needs to know that u want to have a successful and meaningful relationship with him but you can't when he is so angry and hurtful. I think U have started to set boundaries for yourself so that you can control situations that are inappropriate. I think he can't handle it and wants to bully you so that u back down. It's important that when he fires up you be the adult and either just ignore or tell him plainly that it's hurtful and inappropriate. Obviously somewhere down the track this nastiness has got him what he wants. He needs to know though that this behaviour is preventing a deep and meaningful father/daughter relationship.
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21-08-2012 23:35 #20
My 'father' just told me he hopes i die and rot in h3ll
My dad is at home minding my baby while I'm on nightshift.
Your dad is a piece of sh1t.
I wish I could share my dad with you. I'm not telling you how great my dad is to rub salt in your wound, I'm just saying how it SHOULD be. Your dad should be like my dad.
Big hugs for having to deal with him.
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