I'm new to this, i am 39 years old, a mum to a 14 year old gorgeous girl. Am having icsi due to male infertility this is our first round have been told will fall in one or two cycles hopefully we only have to do one cycle. We have egg pick up on Monday 20 August. Partner has been told to be on standby. Really unsure about the standby thing as we were told they would use his frozen fishes. I am on gonal F and orgulatran injections. Trigger will be tomorrow. Am feeling really nervous well we both are as my partner will be a first time dad. Just want to chat with people going through the same as us. Havent told many people only my mum and a close friend. look forward to chatting. Sending out lots of baby dust to you all.