I disagree with your dp. Your entire wedding party is for the both of you. We discussed & agreed on our choices first.
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12-08-2012 20:52 #11
12-08-2012 20:57 #12Senior Member
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I'm pretty lucky that if DP's friends hate me they sure do a great job of hiding it!
12-08-2012 21:12 #13
I would have no issues with them being at the wedding as a guest, but not in the bridal party.
12-08-2012 21:27 #14
My best friend didn't have a bridal party because her husband's brother hated her. There was no way her husband would ask someone who said nasty things about her to be involved other than as a guest.
12-08-2012 21:27 #15Senior Member
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I'd be annoyed that my partner remained friends full stop with someone that they knew hated me (although I don't think there is anyone out there that hates or really dislikes me).
How does that even work - your partner is BFF with someone that hates you? Sounds horrible.
12-08-2012 21:29 #16
Yes! The bridal party is supposed to be excited for you and support you...but I really don't see how someone could do that if they don't like the person you're marrying!
12-08-2012 21:35 #17
12-08-2012 21:36 #18
I'd feel really upset if that happened to me... And if I had a maid of honour who hated DP I'd probably think about how that might make him feel on a day that should be special for us.
Luckily, if we get married there will be no big wedding so we hopefully won't have to deal with annoying wedding politics.
12-08-2012 21:36 #19
12-08-2012 21:39 #20
Having said that, she wouldn't have her if I really didn't want her, it was just an interesting convo to have.
I have no issues with DP being friends with her but I said she isn't welcome in my house. Meh.
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