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    Default Can not believe I'm in this situation

    I'm so mad at myself for being in this position. I never thought I'd have to make this decision in my life. Since learning of termination as a girl/young woman I always believed in pro-choice but now that choice is mine. This is the hardest choice, but I know is the best choice for me and my family. Its making the steps to put it in place that I'm also finding hard to do.
    I'm an unhappily married mum of four beautiful boys, and my youngest is approaching 3 years old, in my mind my family/children were complete. The heart ache from just thinking of it......... how will it feel when its done.
    Quietly struggling.

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    I'm currently pregnant unplanned too, with a 10mth old DS. My DH doesn't want to keep the baby, he isn't ready for another one, so we are having strong and agonizing conversations ATM. I feel your pain and guilt. X

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    *hugs to you both*

    I'm sorry you find yourselves having to make such difficult decisions .

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    it is a very very very hard thing to go through. Feel free to pm me

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    I wish you all the best with your decision. It is the hardest one I ever had to make. Feel free to PM me also. My advice, try to be as informed as possible and don't feel like you have to rushto make a choice.

    Big big hugs xo

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