if he asks you over the phone just laugh at him. HE has no hope at all in having her moved to live with him so she can attend the same school as his SS- the SS is a compeltely different child with different environment factors and needs so of course his development is going to be different to a little girl with special needs.
For him to be able to ask a court for her to live with him he would have to prove that there is some significant reason for updating the orders since they are so fresh - then he'd have to provide evidence that uprooting a 6 yr old with special needs- who requires a routine and the ongoing support of specialists- away from her main carer who she has always lived with so that she can attend a school his SS goes to would be in anyway beneficial to her. He'd at the minimum need to prove how it woudl benefit her with Doctors and specialists reports and no specialist or educator would say that a move 8 hours away from her maincarer, school and the specialist support would be in no way of benefit to her.
Hes crazy to think it would happen- more chance of a pig flying!
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20-07-2012 08:59 #22
Thanks for all the reassurance everyone. Im feeling a lot calmer with it all.
I still havent had a response to my email, and he reakons he's calling the teachers today so we'll see. I highly doubt he will.
Im all for him having involvement (ive only been pushing that for 6 years now!!) and i would appreciate some input from him, but this is just ridiculous. I hope he does call the teachers so he can understand somewhat. Things havent been easy, and ive worked my a%s off for this little girl, i just wish he'd see that.
29-07-2012 19:18 #23
How is everything going with this Livinonaprayer?
01-08-2012 11:59 #24
Hi as i kinda thought, nothing else has been said about it. FOB did call the school, and the school offered for FOB to call at any time. He knows a copy of recent reports including a school IEP report will be in the mail to him shortly.
He's only spoken to DD once since this suggestion, and DD refuses to speak to him. Ive not once said anything against FOB in DD's earshot, so it's completely on her own decision that she refuses to speak to him.
Ive spoken to him, and he didn't mention anything about DD moving lol.
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