Do you ever find yourself thinking about past love with either a male/female & where would it be today or how would it be today?
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16-07-2012 15:57 #1
16-07-2012 16:32 #2
Yes & in my head I think sometimes it would have been amazing for us. But I know I made the right choice to walk away from the guy who cheated, was a drug addict & emotionally detached. I shudder to think where I would be if I had stayed in reality, as opposed to the fantasy version iykwim?
16-07-2012 16:38 #3-
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In a 'Thank God I left that loser' kind of way.
If I hadn't of, I'd probably be engaged/married to him, still desperately unhappy, probably even more so, but scared to leave due to the suicidal and death threats, being emotionally, financially and physically abused. I'd probably still have a relationship with my toxic parents and I'd be working on a career I had/have no interest in which was chosen by my ex.
Yeah, life would be a lot more grim if I was still with him.
16-07-2012 16:40 #4
Nope I only have one life love
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16-07-2012 16:46 #5
It hurt my heart a little when I found out the guy I had been in love with got married. We were on and off for two years then last year he met a girl online and 6 months later they got married. I love my partner now but I always think about the what ifs. I only think of him now maybe once a month.
16-07-2012 16:54 #6
Hurts me as my first real love ended things after nearly 2 years . To find out he dating a girl I used to go to school with and hate . They been together 5? Years and have just had a baby together ( I love my little girl more than words will every explain but sometimes I think about that "what if" and get jealous.. (
16-07-2012 17:24 #7
More like "I'm so glad I'm not still with you." So when I see those things on fb that say "I look at my ex and think 'was I drunk the entire relationship?'" Oh boy do I relate.
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16-07-2012 17:35 #8-
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I've never 'loved' anyone i have dated in the past , first bf we were friends, wish we'd never dated as it stuffed it up, second bf i still care about but it wasnt love.
Third bf is dss father.
My only true love other than dss father was my best friend and he was gay lol, he passed away in 2006 aged 18, my heart still breaks at his death and i wonder what he would have been today at 24, but we were never a couple.
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16-07-2012 17:39 #9Senior Member
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I had two loves before my soul mate. One was pure infatuation/first love/lose20 kilos when broke up sort of love (12 years ago) the second was boring safety rebound from first love(10 years ago) I am incredibly glad I am not with either one, I would be very unhappy and bored.
But it took me those experiences, and my DPs experiences, to make us the people that we are, and I m so glad about that
So no I don't think about them, except in a 'I'm so lucky to be the person I am, with the person I am with' kind of way.
19-07-2012 18:08 #10
Sometimes I think of one of ex's....then I stalk him on facebook and remind myself how much he was an immature d!ck.
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