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    I posted in here the other day that Husband isnt 'ready to settle' and he has left. He came and got his things tonight and left. he was happy and bright and chirpy and didnt care.
    I am gutted!
    I am now 2 months pregnant with a baby that we tried for next month, he knew he wasnt happy last month and he didnt say a thing!
    He gets it easy once again.
    I suppose now I can focus on my kids and getting into uni in the next couple of years.
    So I am on my own now.
    I just cant help but think about this unborn child that was made in a lie.
    How can I deal with this?

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    only time will help...your bub will have loads of love

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    I'm sorry hun, I don't have any advice but huge I take it you were happy and this is a total shock?

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    Wow, that's pretty harsh so sorry he did this to you and your baby.

    Not to upset you but was he cheating? I can't understand how anyone can just walk out on their family? (not that cheating is any excuse) but I'm trying to work out if there is a reason for it that hes not telling?

    Do u have family or friends for support?

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    Thanks for all the support :-)
    I don't know if he is cheating, I doubt it, he has gone back to his mum and dads place and reccons he will be moving into his own place, I will believe that when I see it!
    We were happy! We would laugh and the house was full of happy! I just don't get it?
    But he is the one missing out on his kids....
    He still wants to see them, so I said he could, even though I don't trust him. I am going to go a buy a diary to note down anything that isn't good.
    I am just glad that it didn't happen any later so I can focus in having a good pregnancy and a healthy family :-)
    ETA: most of my family will just roll their eyes that we have split. My mum is really supportive and I have a few friends aswell.
    I may vent on here later on if he dosent pull his weight with the kids

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    So sorry to read that bubbabailey
    All the best for the rest of your pregnancy

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    Sometimes beautiful wonderful things come out of bad situations

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    Wow all I have to say is you are one strong woman! you show so much courage most would crumble. Your better off without him and one day the day will come that he realizes that.


 

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