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11-07-2012 20:09 #1-
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Does anyone else feel this way?
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11-07-2012 20:12 #2Senior Member
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I can't help, I'm currently pregnant with number 2. Maybe ask me again in a couple of yrs lol. But I thght maybe you cld adopt or foster a child?
11-07-2012 20:19 #3
After ds2 we decided no more kids but I am the same, sometimes thinking there is one missing but then at other-times thinking no way could we go through it all again and how it would not be fair to my other two as I already feel like I don't give them enough (although they always come first before everything!)
We decided hubby would have a vasectomy after ds2 was born but still hasnt had it done and the other day i said when the youngest goes to kinder maybe we could have another and he ran away and said he was going to book hos vasectomy right now lol! Still hasn't tho!!!
11-07-2012 20:22 #4
11-07-2012 20:24 #5
Yes, I feel this way too! I have no answer and believe me I am desperately trying to find the answer for me....
I so can't imagine having anymore, but I have such a strong feeling that my number 4 is missing.... I just can't explain it. It is so, so hard feeling this way and not knowing why. I also don't think I could physically or emotionally cope with another.
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11-07-2012 20:26 #6
I understand how you are feeling. We have two beautiful girls and hubby is planing a vasectomy in the very near future. Just the thought of having another baby gives me cold sweats! But I find myself looking for the other kid, almost like I'm missing one. I have come close to telling the girls to be quiet or they will wake the baby so many times. I just think for me it's because we have a 6 year gap and our youngest just seems to be growing up way too fast.
Sorry I don't have any advice.
11-07-2012 20:43 #7Senior Member
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Our 3rd is now 8 months old and we've decided we're done. Except that DH keeps teasing me and saying we should have another, but I suspect he's just putting off having his vasectomy... I feel done- I've been selling all the baby clothes as DS grows out of them, and have sold the bassinet. Capsule is being passed onto a friend tomorrow.
I don't do pregnancy well, not a fan of giving birth, but I just LOVE babies, so if he tried hard enough he could convince me- but don't tell him!
Just rambling here...
But seriously, friends of ours had a bub post-vasectomy through IVF- they got the swimmers straight from the scrotum.
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