Ultrasound 2day and a blighted ovum 😭 nothing worse then being told no baby. Especially when I have been feeling the nausea feeling. Now back to drs tomorrow for the other fantastic news D&C or wait...
Only thing with waiting the ultrasound guy said I should of passed it by now if it was going to happen by itself..
I have endometriosis and had a full clean out done 22 months ago
Then conceived my baby boy 14 mths later number 2 my baby girl was born...
Both where by Csection aswell
So now I'm all confused not to mention the hormones that are running mad
So I guess I would like some advice on what I should do ...
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26-06-2012 14:48 #1
26-06-2012 15:05 #2
Sorry I have no advice, I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss. It's just not fair
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27-06-2012 11:02 #3
I would probably wait a little .. I'm not sure to be honest. Sorry I'm not much help but didnt' want to read and not post.
27-06-2012 11:14 #4
Again Im so sorry about your loss.
What advise are you looking for?
To wait to MC or have a D&C?
I opted to have a D&C both times with mine. I was 10 weeks 3 days when I found out the first time. Even though the D&C was relatively eaasy the bleeding and clotting that happend in the month afterwards was really awful to deal with. I don't regret my decision.
The second time I opted for another D&C. I was 7 weeks when we discovered that one at our viability scan. The recovery from bleeding etc... was so much better. I hardly had any bleeding and din't have any clots. Maybe it was because I had my IVF Dr do this D&C???
I'm not brave enough for a ntural MC. I just want to deal with it and move on to start TTC again.
It's completely up to you what you would like to do. How far along are you? If you wait naturally it "could" take a while as your body has to recognise that there is no longer a viable pregnancy and as with my first I didn't know until 10 weeks at my OB office where she did a routine scan.
27-06-2012 19:21 #5
I just wanted to hear what other people have been through.
I saw my Dr today who has referred me to my OB whom I see tomorrow..
I'm thinking I will go for the D&C coz I really don't think I could handle anymore emotional outbreaks...
In saying that as I'm typing this I have lower back pain😥 and light pains in my tummy like I'm getting my period😔.
28-06-2012 09:06 #6
Good Luck for today. The back pain and tummy pains could be the start of it. I never got that far as I just wanted it over with.
It's a crappy thing to go through. Hopefully you'll get some choices when you see the OB.
28-06-2012 09:12 #7
When I had a blighted ovum before I had dd I had a d&c.
So sorry for your loss xx
28-06-2012 20:01 #8
Saw the OB today and I am booked in for my D&C Tuesday😓 unless I miss carry before then...my back pains and tummy pains settled down pretty early last night, I've had nothing all day until now pains have started again still not that hard just lightly... 😁
28-06-2012 20:19 #9
I had two blighted ovums in a row. The first we waited and hoped and l ended up miscarrying at 10 weeks. The second l was seeing an OB and he reccomended a D&C which l had. I found it much easier to move on the second time as I wasn't hoping for a miracle.. My 4 month old is now asleep in the next room, conceived 3 months after my D&C. It is a heartbreaking experience, but it makes you appreciate your baby even more when they finally arrive..
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29-06-2012 09:11 #10
That's good that he can get you in for a D&C. I hope you don't have to go through a natural MC over the weekend. I'll be thinking about you on Tuesday.
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