A friend of mine had announced her and her partner are expecting their 2nd bub on the wonderful facebook. This was AFTER they had called and seen imediate family and close friends and told them all first.
Anyways, one of her 'friends' on her facebook made this comment and i was shocked, to say the least. I felt just awful for my friend for having to read it.
"Oh?! i hope things work out better with this bub! remember the good old days LOL!!! oh the joys!"
Since it was written, she obviously deleted it as the comment isnt there anymore. But seriously, who does that? My poor friend!
Have you ver had a rude comment when you announced your pregnancy? how did you react?
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22-06-2012 09:02 #1
22-06-2012 09:05 #2
Omfg how nasty
Hugs to your friend xx
22-06-2012 09:36 #3Senior Member
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That is so nasty your poor friend. When I found out I was pregnant it got around quickly because we has some patients with measles and I could loom after them. A co-worker said to me "I don't know why your letting everyone know you haven't reached 12 weeks and could still loose the baby!" I was so dumbfound and upset that I didn't know what to say.
22-06-2012 09:47 #4
I once asked something for someone and i ended up in tears as everyone made the assumption it was about me when it wasnt. There was one comment i had that was so nasty to me, i deleted the person. Endes up readding them in the end but my gosh i was hurt and it made me realise if i ever did fall pregnant that it would be best kept a secret from both here and fb as i couldnt deal with the nasty comments from anyone.
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22-06-2012 10:18 #5Senior Member
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Your poor friend! I had a lot of poor reactions from family when I told them I was pregnant, so much so I refused to tell them with number 2 and told my mum to tell them. I think I would have exploded if I got a negative reaction after last time.
22-06-2012 10:36 #6
thanks for sharing ladies, it's just awful how people can be so disrespectful. For my friend, she was only sharing the joy in her life and for someone to probably put her into tears and ruin her entire day is just beyond low imo.
I dont know wether to send her a txt and ask if she's ok or just pretend i didnt see the comment?
22-06-2012 10:38 #7
Maybe it was a personal joke?? My mate has a terror of a baby an we have a few jokes like that between us.
22-06-2012 10:40 #8Senior Member
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i don't see the issue with the comment...sounds like her first bub was a bad sleeper.
we joke about the "dark days" of our first babies
22-06-2012 10:52 #9
anyone else think it wasnt such a bad comment to make?
22-06-2012 10:54 #10
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