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    Hi Everyone
    Before I start my post I just want to mention I'm looking for advice and support not judgement or nasty comments, thank you.

    Anzac weekend I had a one night stand with a guy I met but don't really know. Then I found out I'm pregnant and now I don't know whether to tell him or not. I still can not believe I'm pregnant! I was with my ex husband for over 6yrs and we tried for so many years to fall pregnant and it never happened and it contributed to our marriage falling apart. It was extremely draining!

    So if you have any advice for what I should do please help me.

    Thanks so much xox

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    Hello Congrats !! I think you should talk to him about it you never know what will come out of it . Best of luck things happen for a reason .

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    I would tell him. He has a right to know about any children he has fathered. Its up to him what he wants to do with that information.

    Good luck with everything.

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    Might as well tell him. Why not. Best of luck with your pregnancy. If anybody says anything nasty or judges you, tell them to get fluffed! The nastier version ; )

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    That must be such a shock for you, but congratulations, despite the less than ideal circumstances.

    I would tell him as well.

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    Congratulations!!! I think that he deserves to know and that it wouldn't be fair to keep something so big from him.

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    Congratulations! I would tell him if it were me, its seems the right thing to do.
    I agree with the post above, things definitely happen for a reason!! There is simply nothing more exciting than a brand new little life xxxxx

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    I think it really depends on the circumstances etc... as well as him- is he likely to be supportive etc? or more likely to be an *** and make everything more difficult for you and bub?
    Talk to your family, friends or whoever is in your support network and see what they think you should do based on your individual circumstances!

    AND CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Thank you for all your lovely comments I really appreciate them xox

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    I really believe that things happen for a reason. This baby is meant to be, especially if you didn't fall pregnant from years of trying with your ex. As for telling the guy. I think the decent thing to do is to tell him. Let him know that he is in no way obligated to you or the baby. You never know, he could be the man you are meant to be with. Good luck.

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