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    Default **Trigger warning** - s.exual language - Baby Love article

    **Warning Possible Triggers. s.exual language**


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    Thoughts??
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    wow... okay.. I don't relate to that at all...


    at.....


    all...

    I've never found my children a turn-on... or breastfeeding a turn on...

    and the feelings that were aroused in me as a milking mummy when I was being intimate with my Dh and when I was feeding were completely different feelings...

    I think she might be a little messed up.......... JMO

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    I didn't read the while thing but I hope her son doesn't find this article when he grows up.

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    Ive read and seen lot of warped, freaky sh!t in my day, but that was just wrong. W.T.F.

    /Vomits

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    I think she needs a psychiatrist.
    The only bit of that article I relate to is the lack of s.exual connection with her partner after childbirth.
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    I think it's awfully sad. I don't think this woman has any idea what love and sex are all about. I think it's sad that she's placing her son in a position of a romantic lover, what happens when he is a teenager? Or even when he's 5? He won't love her unconditionally the way a parent loves a child, how will she deal with that?
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    I found the comments to be equally as disturbing. Scary how many people commended her.

    I would really like to know what book she's referring to that says its normal to be aroused by your child.

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    It is not the first time I have heard a woman finding childbirth or breastfeeding erotic, and although I cannot personally relate to this, I think that it mostly is a harmless association.

    I do however relate to the lack of intimacy after childbirth, and a slight sexual identity crisis (in terms of finding the transition from sensual and adventurous to unattractive and de-sexualised challenging)


    ETA: I might have been guilty of not reading the whole article properly. Masturbating while breastfeeding seems extreme, I certainly don't condone that.
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    I find this bizarre, I never found it arousing. I know that the chemicals your brain releases when breastfeeding is the same as an orga$m but i found it very different

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    Very disturbing

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