I don't feel like he does it for DSS, enrolling him, paying fees and taking him to the events on our weeks is for dss, watching him play is for dss but getting him to the games and training on BM's week, is for BM.its doing her a favour.
It happens every week it's her week.
She can take her other kids (multiple kids to multiple men) to their sports etc but because DH won't stand up to her we are stuck doing it.
I'm made out like the b!tch because I won't do it for her & do not approve of DH doing it for her, when all I want is for her to step up for the benefit of DSS. I am always the bad guy.
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31-05-2012 16:13 #33
I don't know when they communicate, unless DH tells me.
I am of the opinion that on our weeks getting DSS to sport etc is not our problem. BM only wanted DSS so DH couldn't have 100% custody.
I don't doubt her love for him, but he is merely a pawn in her game and her last string attached to DH which she uses her to her advantage.
She does not care for the child the way a mother should.
She has admitted that he is not a "priority" in her life.
Before custody court case DH even offered her money to sign DSS over for 100% custody and bugger off... She actually needed time to think about it.
What sort of mother does that?
It is harsh, but it's true in my case too.
DH can't see that though & whenever I bring it up it's me "attacking" DSS.
Not the case, simple case of not our problem.
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