And I absolutely agree - there's no room for bitterness and anger. Well not in my experience anyway. I felt that at the very beginning and I can assure you it was much more detrimental to me than anyone else. Plus I want my kids to see that even if someone hurts you - you can sort through things without wild raging emotions.
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26-05-2012 22:27 #11
27-05-2012 12:28 #12Junior Member
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Thanks for sharing. You have inspired me, I'm pregnant and just found out this week my partner has been cheating on me. I still love him and I'm still so angry and hurt.
I had a still born baby girl last year and we were trying anther baby. I'm ten weeks pregnant due on Christmas day, the same day my baby girl was due last year. So he now wants me to have a abortion and I'm so scared of losing the baby. He won't even come home and talk to the kids. He is now living with her, some chick from work 12years younger then him.
I'm trying really hard not to be angry. I just can't seem to let go, I'm hurt and I still love him so much. Anyway thanks for sharing, you really have helped me see some light. It's not my fault
27-05-2012 13:03 #13
U r an amazing writer and clearly a very intelligent and level headed woman. As John butler once said the grass is greener but just as hard to mow. So glad your lawn is now lush u deserve it.
To the pp I hope it all works out for u big ((hugs)) don't let ur ex bully u into a termination u can do it alone and if he's like my ex he may come around (as a father) when bubs arrives.
27-05-2012 13:20 #14
That was amazing.
You have clearly touched a number of hubbers with your wise words.
27-05-2012 13:33 #15
wow that was brilliant thank you so much for sharing that, I had warm fuzzies reading.
27-05-2012 13:56 #16
OP- I'm so happy to read that you have let go, moved on and are feeling happy. Good on you! Your letter is amazing, must feel good to get it all out
27-05-2012 13:58 #17
27-05-2012 14:55 #18Senior Member
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- Feb 2012
Thanks for sharing your letter with us.
Your boys are lucky to have such a strong woman as their mother.
27-05-2012 16:35 #19
29-05-2012 21:42 #20
Sorry just wanted to add....
I know it might seems silly to you - but I like the little things the boys do with me that is part of us being in our special little team. I love our knuckle promises and endless destinations as to how far we love each other ... But a tiny part of me cries inside when you start doing it with them too. It's our special little thing that you managed to witness when picking them up - but please don't make then yours. I know that's selfish of me .... But could you just start your own traditions?? Or little secret things - I think it's be nice for them to have their Daddy fun ... Without it taking from the Mummy stuff.
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