What are some things you hate when people come over to your place?
I hate people walking into my house with shoes on, people putting their shoes on my couch and people who don't wash their hands after using the toilet.
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19-05-2012 19:30 #1
Things you hate when people come over
19-05-2012 19:38 #2
I have a clean-freak male friend who always comments on some aspect of cleaning - dirty skirting boards, cobweb in ceiling corner, toilet roll hung the wrong way. Get a grip dude!!
19-05-2012 19:39 #3
19-05-2012 19:45 #4
no not really ..
what I hate is the idea of them coming in and seeing how 'unorganised' my house is .. its fairly clean - but it is messy by some people's standards ..
I'm more worried about what they will think of ME than what they will do in my house??
maybe I'm weird though?
19-05-2012 19:46 #5
19-05-2012 19:55 #6Senior Member
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I hate people who just won't leave!! Like come over in the morning for a quick hello and come 5pm are still hanging around, even as I'm starting to get DD's bedtime routine started
19-05-2012 19:57 #7
Just them coming over at all. lol. I seriously do not like people coming over. I feel awkward. At least when I go to theirs, I can leave if I want. I can't really get them to leave the instant I want them gone (which is pretty much the instant they walk through my front door).
I feel anxious the whole time they're around. I suffer anxiety anyway, usually in relation to how I think people are judging me... so I always worry they're judging my home... on top of my usual worries of them judging me, my looks, my personality, my parenting, etc etc.
ETA - okay but let's just say I could tolerate guests and wasn't a completely anti-social hermit... lol...
I don't like them leaving my toilet seat up, or going to the fridge without me offering them something (I seriously hate this) and giving themselves a tour of my house. There's a reason I didn't give you one - and that reason is because behind those closed doors is a messy bedroom!
Last edited by SassyMummy; 19-05-2012 at 20:00.
19-05-2012 19:57 #8
A certain male who ALWAYS pees on my toilet floor. It got the point where I was actually forced to tell him to be more careful next time. Whenever he leaves, I have to inspect the toilet floor and give it spray with bleach.
Also, people who put their cups down on my furniture without using a coaster drives me quietly mad. I'm not anal, but if it's a nice polished finish and I have provided coasters, use them!
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19-05-2012 20:00 #9
19-05-2012 20:06 #10
I have a bit of anxiety too like sassy said and rarely have ppl over because I panic at what they are looking at, do they think I'm messy etc etc if on the rare occasion some one is here, it annoys me if they come for agreed coffee in morning but then expect lunch and sometimes dinner
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