I know he's not seeing her cause she's in bris n he here in Nsw n I've checked phone records there's no contact between them. Shes stood him up twice now But I've since found out he's been chatting up others on dating site n txt them. I just don't get why he has to go chasing other girls when he has me n kids his. Family right in front of him makes me feel so worthless like why aren't I good enough I know he still loves me n still has feelings for me. It's just like he doesn't know what he wants n I hope n pray to god he wakes up to himself n sees what he has in front of him this is consuming me n my every thought I've lost 5 kg in last 2 weeks n I've mised my period. And even when he's sitting up txt me he's also txt another girl it's ****rd he told his dad he's Gunna drop on my Avon when he finishes work tonight which makes me think he does want to see me but I really don't know I just can't let go n still have hope n feel so stupid n worthless n unwanted
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07-06-2012 20:01 #41
07-06-2012 20:06 #42
you are not worthless but I think you need to realise your own self worth
07-06-2012 20:07 #43
And I still love him so bloody much I just want it all to stop I've gotten to the point where I'm contemplating suicide or packing up n running just anything to make it stop or a miracle to make it all work the way I want it to n for me to be what he wants n for him ti come home to me n kids it hurts so much ive never hurt so much before my heads such a mess
07-06-2012 20:09 #44
You need to call someone ASAP. Family or lifeline.
Can you get in to see your GP and get a mental health care plan? I think you need some counselling to help you sort out your feelings.
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07-06-2012 20:19 #45
I'm already seeing a psychologist n on anti depressants n I don't have any family to go to
07-06-2012 20:23 #46
Please call lifeline if you're contemplating suicide. Your kids need you an you need to look after yourself for their sake.
Where is your family? Can you go to them just to get away from this a'hole? He's manipulating you and you need to stand up for yourself. You're worth more than that.
07-06-2012 21:10 #47
I know I can't take myself out for my kids sake but it crosses my mind my mum doesn't speak to me n my dad is in qld I hate this n just want it to work n be better n not hurt n do my head in
07-06-2012 21:13 #48
I think you really need to let go hun.
As the old saying goes 'if you love something, set it free. If it comes back it was yours all along and if not, it wasn't meant to be'
Can you not go and visit your dad? Do you have siblings?
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07-06-2012 21:21 #49
07-06-2012 21:25 #50
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