Hi everyone! I am new to the forum and have a few questions I am hoping some of you may be able to help with...

#1 My hubby and I are trying to conceive our first baby and this is our second month trying. It already feels like an eternity!! I HATE waiting around to find out if we have conceived or not - I know they call it the two week wait but I only have a luteal phase of around 11 days. Does anyone else have this and is this a good thing or bad? I know most people are around 14-15 days.

#2 The other thing that is really hard is that I don't want to drink alchohol ''just in case'' but it's sooooo hard with all the family events and special occasions lately as it feels like everyone knows what we are trying to do (when we really dont want anyone to know!). Especially as I love a glass of wine and never say no so it seems a bit obvious. Does anyone have any tips or ideas for how to get around this?

Thanks everyone and any tips or advice is greatly appreciated.