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    Default A question about Mother's Day ..

    Hi ladies

    So as the titles suggests I have a question about Mother's day.

    So I don't have my own raeal life bubba but I was pregnant and he was my baby and I gave him a name so I feel like a mother and now he is gone but he lives on in my heart and I miss him every single day so do I get to celebrate Mother's day?

    DH asked me if I wanted a present and I said no. Now I wish I had said yes. Actually scrap that. I don't want a present. I just want a card from my baby. Just a card that tells me he loves me as much as I love him. A card that tells me he wishes he was here as much as I wish he was. A card that shows me he knows I am his mumma.

    I would have been 22 weeks today. I would have been able to feel him move and see him within that baby bump.

    I think I just answered my own question ... I am a mumma. I am your mumma Noah, and from the depths of my heart, I love you. So this Mothers Day, I will celebrate that I am a mumma

    Thanks for reading if you got this far

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    I definitely agree. You'll always be his mother. Your DH sounds lovely, let him know you've changed your mind and would like a little something to celebrate

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    Just had to post with a for you.

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    definitely. you are definitely a mumma, his mumma.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondEyes View Post
    definitely. you are definitely a mumma, his mumma.

    Couldn't have put it any better. I'm sorry you lost your little man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondEyes View Post
    definitely. you are definitely a mumma, his mumma.

    I shed tears when I read this .. it was beautiful. Thank you

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    Quote Originally Posted by MunchiesMummy View Post


    100% you are a Mummy.

    Maybe you could go to a lovely park and light a floating candle and place it on a lake with some flowers or something and tell him all about how much you love him and all your dreams you had for him etc?

    Im very sorry for your loss x
    This sounds like a really lovely idea, thank you

    I do want to do something that is just about him and me

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    I agree with the others...you are his Mummy, and you always will be.

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    Definitely a mumma !!! A very lovely one too!!!

    My dh got a pendant engraved with our twins names for me, two mothers days ago. I wear it everyday to keep them close to my heart
    I thought it was so lovely of him

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lumpy Melon View Post
    Definitely a mumma !!! A very lovely one too!!!

    My dh got a pendant engraved with our twins names for me, two mothers days ago. I wear it everyday to keep them close to my heart
    I thought it was so lovely of him
    This is an awesome idea!

    If it was me I'd get a memorial tattoo done for mothers day. Even if it was just his name.

    One of my best friends lost her baby girl at 32 weeks, she was her first baby and come mothers day the next year my friend wrote her a letter and sent it up on the tail of a helium balloon.

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