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    Sorry this is happening. I hope for as good an outcome as possible for you.

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    I'd be printing it off now. It might be hard for you to act as if you don't know and he could get paranoid and delete any evidence.

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    i wouldn't be able to wait.

    i would print heaps of copies and leave them all over the house...and try and be there to see his face when he reads them.

    don't say anything, stay silent...let him start the conversation.

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    Print off what you've got, think very clearly about what you want to say then confront him. As a pp said, there is no "did you send etc" but rather "I know you've been doing this. It stops now and we need to have a serious conversation about our marriage. Counseling - all of it."

    Be strong and demand that he comes clean. There is now no easy path with this. Best of luck.

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    Do you really need more evidence? I'd think what you have already is more than enough. Don't torture yourself.

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    If it was my husband talking dirty to another woman, rest assured I would kick his @ss thoroughly, then go and hunt her down. No matter how much trust you have/had in him, this a betrayal if that trust. No one, male or female should put up with this, god knows I sure as sh!t wouldn't.

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    Maybe you could send one as him and try to word it do you find out if there's any real plans to act on it?

    What ever you decide to do I wish you luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bambino View Post
    So far the messages have been sporadic, not regular. And it looks like mainly weekends from the dates sent.
    I'm thinking to give it until Sunday evening to see if there are anymore messages added? If there are, I can print them off, the more the better for proof?
    Honestly its completely up to you where you go from here.

    But if this happened to me I wouldnt be able to look at him let alone sleep in the same bed.

    I agree with printing off the copies just incase.

    Im so sorry you're going through this.

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    Print it off now just Incase he changes his password.

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    I feel sick to my stomach for you!

    Print the info now its betraying you and he may delete them esp if she tells him about the fb message (you sent)

    I think before you do confont this issue you need to ask and answer a few questions of your self!

    If he has slept with her will you leave?
    What if you confront him and he lies again?
    Is the dirty talk a deal breaker for you?

    It sounds to me like your hurt but you dont want to loose him.

    I have been through this and if it were me I'd pack his/my **** and leave...

    Have some space and work it out!
    If you leave him he will either see what he's loosing and REALLY change his ways or he will move on! either way your taking back control of the situation and not allowing him to continue to disrespect you.

    I would print the info you have and when he comes home tell him you know there is something going on between them and you want him to leave!

    Dont give him any more info he will prob land himself in it when he tries to back pedal and you will prob get info out of him you never even knew Id prob even say she contacted you and told you everything just to see if he spills the truth thinking he's been sprung!

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