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09-05-2012 11:37 #61
09-05-2012 11:41 #62Senior Member
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09-05-2012 11:50 #63
I am so sorry don't let him lie to you and try to make it looks like he's done nothing. You deserve the truth. Hugs!
Hope you are ok?
09-05-2012 11:58 #64Senior Member
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Oh I feel sick for you....
I don't know what I would do ...
But I can say this... dont fight with her, men secretly get a Kick out of two women fighting over them.
I would confront him when you are both alone.
Make sure you have all your facts before heading into battle.
If that fails scare the crap out of him by packing your crap with your kids and leave and tell him to expect a call from your lawyer.
Unfortunately its very easy to get caught up in attention from the opposite sex and way too easy to not think and just do.
Once he realises what he has jeapordised it will only be a matter of minutes before he is begging you back.... if he doesn't, then at least you know where you stand ....
I hope this helps....
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09-05-2012 12:02 #65-
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Don't question him on it, that gives him the opportunity to twist and turn his way out, to make it out like its no big deal.
Give it to him as facts "I know you have been doing this and that etc" instead of "have you been doing xyz?"
Print off all you can first as evidence. Before you say anything.
09-05-2012 12:04 #66Senior Member
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Oh you poor thing thing! It is such a heart wrenching stomach dropping feeling.
I've been through this and being pregnant I chose to forgive. Few months after the birth it happened again, but with many other girls. He is now my ex.
Best advice I can give is to not think it's your fault or anything you have done. This is completely HIS doing. As much hatred as you would be feeling towards her remember that he is your husband, she is nothing to you.
Also whatever happens it is entirely up to you, nobody can tell you what you should do.
I do suggest you get some support though.
Best of luck.
09-05-2012 12:36 #67
She lives interstate so I know that there is no physical contact at the moment.
The fact that he talks to her like that......he doesn't even speak dirty to me.
09-05-2012 12:39 #68
I'd be printing out the proof and letting him know he has a boat load of explaining to do.
09-05-2012 12:42 #69
09-05-2012 12:48 #70
So far the messages have been sporadic, not regular. And it looks like mainly weekends from the dates sent.
I'm thinking to give it until Sunday evening to see if there are anymore messages added? If there are, I can print them off, the more the better for proof?
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