I had a misscarriage about a month ago after almost a year TTC. We live in a small country town where eveyrone knows everyone else. We are lucky, we have a beautiful 4yo but it is soooo frustrating that people feel the need to comment about me having another child. I jsut don't feel the need to share my personal information in a public place when I don't know them that well. My good friends know. It is NOT their business. Yes my child does love babies but them commenting that I should have another one when I am trying and have had a loss does not make me feel better. I will spill it all out and have a biiiiig vent at them one day but once I do that information will be out.
Jsut having a vent here where it is safe and I am sure some of you know how I feel.
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05-05-2012 18:06 #1Senior Member
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Vent about peoples comments
05-05-2012 18:25 #2
GBH's. I had a very hard time conceiving & 2 miscarriages in the 2 years after our wedding before concieving DD1. It drove me crazy all the questions over & over. I hope you get your baby soon.
05-05-2012 18:30 #3
People are so rude. Best of luck with trying again xx
05-05-2012 19:00 #4Senior Member
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We have a foster child so everyone just assumes we can't have our own baby (we recently had a miscarriage but will try again) it drives me insane! It is none of the business and they should keep what they are thinking to themselves!
05-05-2012 19:15 #5Child led parent here...save me :)
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I have dealt with a lot of comments like that over the last year. You know what eventually I just told them and it wasn't terrible in fact it was really good for me. I am sorry you miscarried and it is really tough time. For those who I didn't want to tell anything I would just say hopefully one day because that was my honest and non personal feelings on the matter occasionally people would ask if I was having trouble or was I trying again I would just be short and honest.
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