I think he's taking you for a ride. I think he's either lying about what he does, or is just so completely greedy to ask you for petrol money.
You love him, but ask yourself this... do you want to be treated this way? You deserve better. You don't want your son growing up believing that this is how you treat someone you love.
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25-04-2012 18:08 #31
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25-04-2012 18:26 #32Senior Member
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He's married... Sorry
25-04-2012 18:38 #33
Sounds like hes a liar - or at least hes dishonest, because if hes hiding you from his family and friends what is he hiding from you?
Sounds like as well "ceo" means him and his mate have a 2 man operation? Or more or less? Sounds like a self appointed title to me if hes doing menial work and asking you for money for him to drive 30klms.
Im sorry you love him. That sucks but you need to love yourself more. If you can love yourself as much as you think you love him you would drop him in a second. Because I think you'd see theres no happy ending for you loving this man.
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26-04-2012 07:27 #34
26-04-2012 10:27 #35
I was in a very similar "relationship" before I met my DH. He had 2 other girlfriends while hiding me, no joke.
He smells of bad news and you sound like a lady that deserves to be treated much better, a real man wouldn't even ask for petrol money.
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26-04-2012 10:35 #36
I don't know what you should do, but if this was me and my bf and I had been together for almost a year and he still hadn't introduced you to his friends and family, I'd seriously be putting my foot down. My bf and I have only been together roughtly 6 weeks, he's met my kids but we haven't met each other's family and friends, but we haven't been together long and there is no rush...but almost a year? Nope. As I said, I'd be saying something for sure.
26-04-2012 10:40 #37
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08-05-2012 22:54 #39
Agreed with all. You need to kick him to the kerb. You deserve to be treated well! And I am sorry but making you pay for petrol? Complaining about the distance to see you?
Someone who adores you wouldnt hide you from his family, friends or complain about the above.
He's meant to be a man not a mouse.
11-05-2012 21:43 #40Senior Member
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The book 'He's just not that into you' is awesome.
It says we girls will make excuse for a mans bad behaviour all the time and we do. If a guy is too busy to talk he will ring you and tell you he's too busy but very sorry and will do anything to spend time with you or give up meat just because you don't eat food with a face!!!
Sorry but I think you know what you need to do.
Break it off, delete his number (or rename the number to 'Loser don't answer'
I know it can be hard but your better single and strong, than being crippled by a bad relationship.
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