Sorry to say sweetie but i think he's giving you the run around
A good adult chat might do the relationship good
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25-04-2012 13:02 #21
25-04-2012 13:12 #22
I know exactly how it feels to be in love with someone who treats you terribly but you are constantly defending him to everyone (including yourself)
In the end you have to decide if the love you get from him is worth the pain he is obviously causing you. No one can make that decision but you.
BUT I do have to agree with everyone else that any computer CEO that requests petrol money from a single mother on a pension is not a CEO or is a douche!!! (probably both)
25-04-2012 13:41 #23Senior Member
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Something is not right with this man... I hope you can move on and find someone who will do anything for you and your child. Hugs!
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25-04-2012 13:44 #24
To put it bluntly "He's not that into you" - simple
25-04-2012 14:01 #25
I really have to agree with everyone else. I believe he's lying to you about his job (or he's a total tight a@rse, I mean what CEO asks his single mother gf to give him petrol money? ). He's hiding you from friends and family. When I was about 15 I was seeing this guy for a few months. Treated me similar to your bf, my head told me I was a booty call but being young and stupid I refused to believe it. Then I found out from his sister that after 4 months of 'dating' she and his parents knew nothing of me and his best friend didn't even know we were dating. That's when I knew. I dumped him a few days after I found that out.
The bottom line is if he really wanted to spend time with you he would jump thru rings of fire to do so. Let him go you are clearly into him more than he is in you.
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25-04-2012 14:05 #26
Guys who are into you....would walk on hot coals for you. Would spend the petrol to see you. Heck mine didn't even live in the same town as me...and his car broke down so he took the bus to see me. If they want you....they would move mountains to see you.
25-04-2012 14:08 #27
Ok, I didn't even need to read your whole post... Go to the library and hire the book "He's just not that into you! " I'm sorry... But he's just NOT that into you! He's using you. Move on and up darl, you deserve 100% better!
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25-04-2012 14:13 #28
Sorry hun, but you are the only one in this relationship
Get out and find someone who deserves your love!
25-04-2012 14:20 #29
Agree with everyone else sadly I read your post to my DP and he advised that you removed all the "It's like..."s - It's like he doesn't care would become he doesn't care.
You really must remember though that he is the loser jerk here. You've obviously given it your all, and if he wasn't that into you he should have said so months & months ago, not led you on like this. I hope you can move on from him knowing that something much better is just around the corner. Imagine how awesome it'll be to have someone ASK to come and see you and your DS! That's what you deserve, not the rubbish this guy is carrying on with.
25-04-2012 18:04 #30
Umm can I ask why he asks for petrol money when he's a CEO?? Don't they earn big money? Plus the long hours he's supposedly working... U would think he could afford it with all those extra hours...??
Sorry u r going through this OP
No one deserves that treatment and to be honest the first question that comes to my mind is: is he already in another relationship / married? Is that why he won't / can't commit?
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