I think there needs to be certain level of healthy jealousy because you want to protect your relationship. I don't think my husband is jealous in a bad way but I know he doesn't like the thought of other people checking me out. He comments that my tops are too low and when I bend over men will check me out. I think your justified in your thinking.
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15-04-2012 21:35 #11Senior Member
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15-04-2012 21:58 #12
Mine is the same. I once told him that a guy at work told me he liked me & would wait for me forever, he just laughed & said that guy was crazy
15-04-2012 22:01 #13-
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and Im the same.hes had drunk random girls pash him at work, and Im not the slightest bit jealous
15-04-2012 22:02 #14
I love it when DH gets jealous. We went out to a club last weekend (rare) and I loved how jealous he was getting lol It was fun flashing my ring at guys who tried to chat me up but I liked seeing that DH still cared.
He's not insecure but I think he likes to "mark his territory."
15-04-2012 22:03 #15
I just made that sound gross lol
15-04-2012 22:47 #16
Its cute when we're out or watching a movie and I casually say I like some random guys arms and DH will pout and be like "but you like mine better right?"
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16-04-2012 07:20 #17-
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I hate it. DP has extreme insecurities, In the earlier days of our relationship it was pretty bad, when we went to a pub or club he will often come just to keep an eye on me, not because he actually wanted to come out, and if he did want to come, if a guy even looked my way he would hold/kiss me to make it known that I am with him, I didn't care that everyone knew I was with him, but the reasons he was flashing me around made me feel uncomfortable and pretty annoyed actually. If I said a guy was attractive/unattractive (celebrities, I would never say a random guy was hot while with him) he would compare how the attractive guy looked nothing like him, so I must not think he's attractive or how the unattractive guy looked like him so I must think he's unattractive.
Just really silly petty things that put a constant strain on our relationship because I felt like he didn't trust me. He barely ever gets jealous anymore and I 100% prefer it like this, I dread when his jealousey rears again.
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16-04-2012 07:32 #18
Neither DF or I get jealous. We are both very secure in our relationship so have no need to be.
I find jealousy to be rather needy and a huge turn off.
DF and I both comment how on other people we find attractive to each other, there isnt a need for jealousy. We can look but not touch!!
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Nope, he never gets jealous, I can't stand jealousy. We both perve at others, and I think its highly amusing when I leave him alone for 5 minutes, come back and there is some girl flirting with him..because I know he absolutely hates it and wants her to fck off but is too much of a gentleman to tell her to do so.
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16-04-2012 07:57 #20
DH doesn't get jealous at all!!
I know he trusts me 100% so I think maybe it's more that.
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