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    Default Do you ever feel invisible?

    on the forum?

    I notice that sometimes in the more "intelligent" threads its the same old people and others just get ignored?

    I know I am not that smart and not too good at expressing myself, but I do feel that my posts are ignored in some threads.


    But I am overly sensitive too...lol

    anyone else feel like this?

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    I kind of feel like I slip through the cracks, I have nearly 12k posts but I feel like I might as well be a newbie.

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    Yep. Quite often. I thought I was intelligent until I joined BH lol

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    Not really. But I think I'm quite happy to have a unilateral conversation on forums, ie. say my piece but not need a dialogue or response (unless I'm asking for some advice etc).

    Fwiw, I perceive you as "popular" (sounds weird saying it about a forum, lol) and visible on this forum.

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    Ohhh MsMummy...I think you just made me see the problem.

    I do require validation with nearly everything....so its me...hahaha.

    Thank you.

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    Yeah, sometimes.
    I think i often go unnoticed, i'm sure many have no idea who i am despite my huge post count. I'm not very articulate or funny or interesting and i am quite polite and don't stir the pot so i think that makes me fairly unmemorable.

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    Yeah a bit. I posted a photo in the reveal yourself thread, and one person "thanked it" whereas everyone elses photos were getting a million comments. So I posted another photo, and then another one! And got nothing. Oh well!

    I do think I'm a pretty forgettable person, and I'm not overly interesting, and certainly not intelligent, so I try not to let it bother me that I go unnoticed. I guess its a bit of a self confidence hit sometimes, but meh, there are more important things to worry about in my life than being noticed on bubhub

    FWIW I still love it here and love everyone here. I notice the popular people and I guess I sometimes envy them to a degree, but I'm cool in my own weird way

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    BerylsMum I definitely notice you around you aren't invisible to me

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    Sometimes I will sit there and wonder if my posts are invisible as I will be the first to give an answer on a subject, lots of people will say the same thing, but its their posts that get quoted/thanked and mine don't get a response sometimes! I dont mind it that much, I guess I see this place as a huge hall full of friends, and a few frenemies, , sometimes you are going to pay more attention to a close friend's reply than a newbie with 12 posts.
    I know there are hubbers that have been speaking on here for years, so they are going to pay more attention to their posts than mine.


    I have noticed I kill a LOT of threads too.

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    It's funny because all of you who have posted above me, I notice!

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