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    For our second baby we had my IL's stay. Sometimes we have a rocky relationship, sometimes all is good. You never know what you're going to get etc.

    DH & I were dead against ANYONE staying, visiting immediately etc.

    Bub decided to be born 5wks early & the IL's stayed until he was 2wks old. It was so helpful! We thought we'd hate it, but they were helpful, supportive & that extra set of hands to allow me some extra hrs sleep & get things done. It was good!

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    i think if she lives overseas, you have a great relationship - do it. its only a week extra after all.

    For there is no way on this earth in this life mil would come stay. My mum yes. But I love my mummy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyskies View Post
    I really don't think you'll know what you want, until you're there..
    Exactly this! DF really wants her to stay as long as she can, so I don't want to deny either of them that. I think it will be good to have someone around to do the things which will be neglected first, cleaning, washing etc, that will be fantastic.

    I have told him that he needs to listen to me if I'm getting frazzled or stressed and I know he will. And then he'll be the one who tells her we to make herself scarce, that we need some space......


 

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