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    Default DP and I have made the decision to split.

    :-( culmination of everything, dp not willing to provide, mil, fil and not being able to do anything but argue..

    I just feel numb.

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    Sorry to hear that. Hope you find peace in your decision and it's a positive step for you both.

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    I hope it all works out for you the best way.

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    Hugs... may things look a little clearer and brighter in the morning... look after yourself.

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    I'm just so tired of fighting. We're in very different places and I just can't keep giving up everything I want from my life for him.

    I dont want my children to grow up without both of us everyday but how do you stop becoming someone you hate when the other person doesn't respect the needs of you and your children??

    I don't want to be a naggy, complaining bit!h.

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    Have you tried counselling? Maybe in a few days/weeks he will miss you all and realise he's missing out. I really really hope things work out for you.

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    Sounds like you are doing it for the right reasons, but it doesn't mean it's going to be easy.

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    hug, def still look into counselling or mediation...your bub is so young, it is a hard time for either of you to make clear decisions

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    good luck hun. I think talking to a counsellor may help you grieve the relationship loss in a "healthy" way.

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