There are so many things I am confused about at the moment and I really wish google or bubhub or a magic 8 ball could just tell me the answers lol.
I have gone over the pros and cons of 3 major issues and I still can't choose what to do! So this is just a vent. I wish I could write these 3 things into google and have it tell me the right answer lol!
"Should we move houses"
"Should I have another c-section or have a vaginal birth despite risks"
"Should DH take a year off work next year so that I can have my surgeries, or should he keep working and we have our 4th baby (close to this 3rd one) and put off surgery until who knows when..."
I just need to know either way the right choice for each of those questions and I can't seem to choose anything!!
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15-03-2012 14:19 #1
I hate making decisions!! vent
15-03-2012 15:24 #2Senior Member
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Not much help but with the vbac I would recommend going to a course about them. I did and It was the best thing. I don't know how many C's u have had but normally it's no more riskier that another C. Imo
15-03-2012 15:31 #3
15-03-2012 15:48 #4
Okay, my magic 8 ball says:
Ask again later
Without a doubt.
Which is a better outcome than I usually get. It always non committal with me. No matter how many times I 'ask again later' its never helpful.
Seriously, some decisions are so hard. I find physically writing everything out (on paper) can sometimes help make it clearer in my head. Good luck.
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15-03-2012 15:52 #5Senior Member
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I hate decisions too.
Would it help to picture where you want to be in say 2 years or 5 years and work back from there to see how is best to get there?
15-03-2012 16:12 #6has left the building
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I am terrible at making decisions too, i over think everything. Even the simplest of decision can be a huge dilemma in my head, i hate it.
15-03-2012 16:48 #7
15-03-2012 20:10 #8
Yep I over think things too!
Nacy, working backwards from 2 years would be helpful, thats a very good idea for #3. For #1 and #2 I have to weigh up the pros and cons asap before I give birth lol! I have written them all out on paper (dh teases me for my lists) but as much as a rationalise each choice, one never comes out over the other. DH has also left choices 1 and 2 completely up to me and it just makes me more frustrated to talk to him about it! Maybe I will make an actual thread some day soon with my pros and cons listed for questions 1 & 2. Hopefully someone will say something that magically shines a light on which way to go haha.
15-03-2012 20:25 #9
Don't move house! It's hellish.
15-03-2012 20:28 #10
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