Fingers crossed it's too early to see a sac Stretched.
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10-05-2012 09:20 #341
10-05-2012 15:43 #342
Oh Stretched I'm so sorry you have to go thru all this stress. My fingers are crossed for you.
10-05-2012 17:31 #343
Hope all went well at the scan today Stretched xxx
Nothing new going on with me at the moment. Off to have an ultrasound tomorrow to make sure all is good after miscarriage and then it's back to tracking o again. Tried to do bbt but temps are still on the high side do might have to give that a miss this month
10-05-2012 19:41 #344
Tuesday & Wednesday I had faint bfps on IC. Today, I did and FRER and an IC. Both bfn! WTF???
But my up close vision is terrible so I took a pick of the FRER and inverted it and can see a faint but obvious line. Mind tricks, eye tricks, test tricks.
10-05-2012 21:11 #345Senior Member
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Fingers crossed for you stretched xx and heaps of glue for you sticky bub :-)
Mind tricks are the worst boost. Have you tried holding it up to a light, that shows the line very clearly.
Soooo great news for me!!! AF just came... All by itself :-D worried for nothing but it does put me ovulating around the date DH is due home from work :-/ fingers crossed I O the day he gets home and not before.
10-05-2012 21:20 #346
That's weird Boost. Usually FRER are the best (and would wanna be for the price ) Hope you get the clear BFP you are hoping for soon.
Bon - glad to hear AF has come and hopefully you can now resume baby making I'm crossing my fingers he's home at the right time
Stretched: lots of love for tomorrow Hun, will be thinking of you.
AFM - 10 DPO another BFN. Boobs are sore, still getting cramps and pulling sensations, but my cervix is where it normally is every cycle right before AF, so I'm 90% sure I'm out. Dh tried getting menevit but no where sells it around here, so I'm going to get him the Swiss Herbs tabs for men tomorrow.
10-05-2012 21:25 #347
Does anyone else feel sad with mothers day approaching? I have been thinking about it for a while, am I mother even though I don't have a baby to hold? Can I celebrate all that mothers day means even though our little bean was gone at 9 weeks? Am I being silly? Has anyone else thought about it?
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10-05-2012 21:37 #348
I'm lucky I already have children. But I don't think it's silly at all. Of course you were and are a mother your child just left earlier than most do. I think if you feel the need to celebrate or commiserate on M Day then do what you feel you need to.
Much love to everyone as the day approaches.
10-05-2012 21:48 #349
11-05-2012 08:36 #350Senior Member
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Lama yes you are a mother and if you want to celebrate on Mother's day you should. I lost my bubs at 12 weeks but i still say i am a mother of two it doesn't matter how long they are with us they are still our babies. I have had another very early m/c and for some reason i don't feel the connection as much don't get me wrong i was devastated and heartbroken but i think because it was so early and never confirmed i put it to the back of my mind. After all the pain you go through the first time i think I still felt so numb and I was severely depressed it was hard to really connect IYKWIM. I recently found a poem that pinpoints exactly what your asking:
I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked, What makes a mother?
And I know i heard him say
A Mother has a baby
This we know is true
But, God, can you be a mother
When your baby's not with you?
Yes, you can he replied
With confidence in his voice
I give many women babies
When they leave it is not their choice
Some I send for a lifetime
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb
But there's no need to stay
I just don't understand this God
I want my baby here
He took a breat
and cleared his throat
And then i saw a tear
I wish i could show you
What your chils is doing here
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
of life and love and fear,
but My Mummy loved me so much
I got to come straight here"
I feel so lucky to have a Mum who
had so much love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My mummy set me free
I miss my mummy oh so much
But i visit her each day
When she goes to sleep
On her pillow is where I lay
I stroke here hair and kiss her cheek
And whisper in her ear
"Mummy please don't be sad today
I'm your baby and I'm here"
So you see my dear sweet one
Your children are ok
Your babies are here in my home
And this is where they'll stay
They'll wait for you with me
Until your lessons there are through
And on the day that you come home
They'll be at the gate waiting for you
So now you see
What makes a Mother
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.
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