I feel so 'meh' today. Everyone around me is pregnant or partying or just enjoying life in general. I just feel fat and tired and run down. And primarily, lonely Sorry for the me post.
I told my mum about my mc but not my sister. Got a random, out of the blue text from my sister with just a heart... Mum must have told her. That makes me so angry. I HATE the pity party.
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06-05-2012 15:51 #291
06-05-2012 16:23 #292
So after going to that horrible doctor on Monday and realising that the baby was measuring 6 days older then what it should be (I ovulated very early and that measurement put me before AF) I went off to get a second opinion. The new doc did blood tests which I had not had at all during my pregnancy. After the second one came through and showed my hcg level although very high was dropping and sent me off to the hospital. After 5 hrs the worst was confirmed and my little bub was stil measuring 6 wk2 days but was so squashed looking like a half moon now due to a 4cm blood clot above it. The hospital suggested I take misoprostol as I wouldn't be able to have a d&c for a week. I agreed as I couldn't bare having the baby in there any longer and kept thinking I'd already hurt it enough with that damn clot. I wish I just waited for the D&c. 7 hrs of complete torture.
One of my friends who is currently preg and knows what happened keeps trying to call me and I feel like such a cow cos she is the last person I want to talk to. She gets preg very easily and has no probs and it's like a slap across the face every time I talk to her and I don't want to hear don't worry you got pregnant once you will again speech.
Sorry for the long post needed to vent. Just hating the world at the moment
06-05-2012 16:43 #293
Lots of love to you Boost. I've been in that poor me mood a lot lately. Sick of everyone being pg, then I feel guilty and like a b*tch bc I would want others to be happy for me. Bleggh
Lilbub - I'm am so so sorry hun I'm shedding a tear for you, god life is cruel sometimes.
06-05-2012 16:52 #294
DPO 6 now and I'm getting some cramping. Trying very hard to ignore it and get my hopes up as they are always dashed. Refusing to test before Wed despite having about 30 hpts *twidling fingers for a few more days*
How you going stretched? and Tigger... how are you babe? been thinking of you.
06-05-2012 17:09 #295
06-05-2012 17:30 #296
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06-05-2012 19:23 #297
I have like 22 ic hpts so I might test Mon, Wed, Fri, Sun... Haha(Im a total addict). These ones apparently detect hcg from 10!
Im a bit crampy and cranky today. Around O I had hideous gas pains.
06-05-2012 19:39 #298
Good luck girls. I'm hoping to see some beautiful stories of BFPs. Quick question how long after your loss did AF come back?
06-05-2012 19:54 #299
mine was 6 weeks to the day but many get straight back onto their cycle. Some even conceive a couple of weeks after the loss.
06-05-2012 20:02 #300
I've been told due to tablets to wait a month. It took us 9 months for this miracle and that was after AF stopped completely and then another year to get cycle on track again. I'm scared it will take that long again. I think my mum thinks I'm crazy to be thinking about ttc again so soon but I'm trying to get positive baby vibes happening again. Will see if that continues when I go back to the real world tomorrow
And thanks so much for your kind words x
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