Lilbub so sorry for your loss, it's just heartbreaking isn't it.
FTM sorry to hear the witch arrived but glad you're feeling better.
Poor STretched I know that worry all too well. for Friday.
Lama i can understand wanting to time your bub, my best wishes to you whatever you decide.
NicM I hope your cycles are coming back to normal, geez 15 weeks that's a whopper, you poor thing.
AFM - angel #1 was due today We are on vacation in Canada and had an amazing day skiing, we went for it for five hours non-stop on the most fabulous snow. Drank a toast to bubby and shed a few tears this evening.
We also got our results from the IVF specialist. There's nothing wrong with us at all that they can find. The doctor recommended starting IVF anyway as he thinks IVF + CGT will ensure a healthy outcome. However I'm not ready to go down that path yet and hubby is happy to support me in that, so we're going to not NOT try, if that makes sense, for the time being. I am sick of being hung up on TTC and need to focus on all the wonderful things I already have in my life.
So I'll be lurking now and then to keep tabs on you guys, but probably won't post too much.
to all xxx
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02-05-2012 12:05 #271
02-05-2012 12:25 #272
Thanks so much to all of you for your kind words. I think today I'm finally starting to process everything. I went and had acupuncture done and feel a bit better. Totally dreading going back to work tomorrow though.
Good luck to everyone on your journey. I will start with personals when I'm out of my fog x
02-05-2012 15:00 #273Senior Member
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Thanks Del, FTM and Tigger, but unfortunatly I must have been dreaming it, no show it's so confusing, TMI alert, but my CM is mostly clear and kinda stretchy like at the moment, but every now and then there is this dark tinge in there, today there was yellowish. I just don't know what the heck is going on, it's driving me nuts
Tigger, you never know, this is when it may happen, DF and I aren't really trying at the moment as money is tight, waiting until his work picks up and we get a bit more steady on our feet, and a friend said to me that when we are not trying is when it may very well happen.
03-05-2012 18:58 #274
FTM - it always seems strange to be happy to get AF when TTC, but at least she lets you know if you got you ovulation dates right etc. Good like for this month!
Lama - hope your O happens soon, so much waiting in this thread as always!
Del - glad you O'd and hopefully you caught that late-arriving eggy!
Lilbub - glad you're feeling a bit better and looking after yourself. I hope work's been ok today.
Tigger - Good luck with the not-not-trying! I think you've made a good decision to not rush IVF yet since it looks like there is nothing obvious causing a problem. Hopefully your sticky bub is not far away.
Nic - Sounds like you could be Oing by your CM. If you don't get AF in another 2 weeks I'd be trying to get checked out. I did have a friend who's AF didn't return for 12 or so weeks after her D&C but then they conceieved their DD just a few cycles later - so good luck!
AFM - I am so confused! I started bleeding a lot about an hour after I posted on Tues, this lasted all yesterday but the cramps had settled a little by the evening. I had my bloods again yesterday and was pretty much feeling 'oh, well, guess we'll just see how much it goes down'. Today the cramps are gone but still bleeding - sorry for the TMI, but the whole time it's just been blood, eg. not like a period, no bits of lining, no clots etc - bleeding getting a bit less today. I have a doc appt tomorrow morning but got hold of him today and he told me my bloods on monday were 20 and the wednesday ones were... 42! He said it's low, but not if I O'd later than I thought (didn't have +OPK when I thought I Od). If they have been doubling properly, that means that my 1st positive HPT my levels must have been below 5! So more bloods tomorrow, they double again and hopefully I can get the results before the weekend so I don't have to wait til monday!!! So much waiting!
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04-05-2012 08:45 #275Senior Member
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Stretched I am thinking of you today and I hope your levels have doubled as they should.
04-05-2012 09:19 #276
Quick update - 1st thing in the morning here and just POAS with a FRER and it is getting darker! I looked at all my O symptoms in my diary again and can see I might have O'd 5 days later than I thought (I thought these symtoms were the beginning of preg symptoms) which would mean my bleeding started when AF would have been due. Feeling cautiously optimistic!
04-05-2012 11:25 #277
Thinking of you stretched! Fx :babydust:
AFM no ewcm at all so guessing o hasn't happened yet... Still checking for signs but so far nothing, no headaches as usual, only aching b00bs & that's about it!
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04-05-2012 12:09 #278Senior Member
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for you Stretched.
The thing that confuses me is that I had cm like that about a month ago minus the discolouration, and still no AF. My doc keeps telling me not to worry about it, that the more I worry the more it wont come, but it's hard not to. I do go back to the gyn clinic on the 21st of this month though
04-05-2012 12:14 #279
04-05-2012 21:24 #280
Thanks for the support girls - it's helping keep me sane!
Lama - hopefully O's not too far away. These post-mc cycles are crazy aren't they!?!
Nic - I hate the whole "stop worrying or it won't happen" thing that people love to say - and to hear it from your doctor (I might have punched him if it was me). Have you been having any cramping? Either with the CM or at other times?
FTM - thank you so much, I'm glad you're getting a positive vibe. I've felt very positive about this BFP, but it's so hard to hold on to optimism when having such heavy bleeding (which is at least really slowing down now at least). I hope you're right (as it seems you very often are!).
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