Im a beauty therapist & had a small convo with my DH about me needing some, er, maintenance....
Anyhoo, I went off in a tangent telling him he had no idea how it felt blah blah blah & said, well, let me do it to you!
Mr big man (stupidly) agreed.
That was 7 years ago. He has never asked, mentioned or complained about body hair on me... or him... since
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13-03-2012 16:45 #41
18-03-2012 09:06 #42
After I'd been getting them done for quite a few months, it would be almost good enough but still didn't live up to my standards so I stopped bothering.
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18-03-2012 09:33 #43
I find it concerning on so many levels...even saying you feel you don't "maintain" as much as you "should" - there is no should! Ok..well, yes, you should bathe regularly. That's where it ends, anything else is personal choice. Also my partner wanting me to do something that I would find not only painful but distressing would be an immediate turn off. How could he want that? Yes want the end result but as soon as he knew how it would make you feel then still want or deman you go through with it? Would you want your DH to do something that was painful and demeaning for him, and made him feel distressed, just for your pleasure at the end result?
Yes some people have preferences in presentation but even if you do nothing but shower daily then you are not somehow flawed or less than. He needs to respect you as you are and I am saddened that you have been made to feel bad for "not maintaining."
26-03-2012 13:35 #44Senior Member
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Your vagina = your rules. Besides why is he spending time grading your grooming? Most guys would be grateful they get it to it at all, and it should be more about the action then the aesthetic.
If Brazilians have never been your thing then you shouldn't be having to start now. Make him get the 'sack and crack' done at the same time - and then just use Veet for yourself.
26-03-2012 13:37 #45Senior Member
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26-03-2012 13:50 #46
I use to go and get waxed until I gave up.. It was just to painful!!
I didn't see why I should pay $$ to have some one rip out my pubes and me be in pain
I mean it's just hair.. It's not hurting any one right?? I still kept it trim and tidy with "personal clippers"
But my husband had a fit! Saying it was gross, hair mad it look ugly.. I don't really see how a Vagina can ever look "pretty" but oh well.
I also didn't see how making it look like a naked mole rat had anything to do with our sex lives.. Who cares if you have Curly fries of skinless chicken!
But my husband seemed to think it was the end of our sex lives.. I didn't think it was fair he was allowed to have a Wild Forrest around his tree. But yet I had to be kept hair free..
(I don't like the look of shaved or waxed men.. Makes them look like a boy! Nothing masculine about it at all)
Any way I had a wax pot at home that I use to use to do my eyebrows or under arms..
I told him I would go back bare if he waxed as well.. The stupid man agreed... I did one section and he was carrying on about the pain and wouldn't let me proceed..
Oh no but it didn't stop there!!
My husband thought hair removal cream would be a good idea for me to try... I said no as in the past when I tried it, it burnt!!
Any way he tried it... I think he left it on for to long.. I don't know what he did..
But we ended up in the ER because he had chemical burns all over the base of his penis, the top layer of skin on his scrotum had been taken off, and blisters all down his groin and down near his anus... I swear the nurses must have been laughing when we left!
And I was the one nursing his wounds back to good health.. Changing his dressings daily.. Taking him up to the hospital for check ups because he said it was to painful to drive..
This was about 3 years ago! Now we both have hair, and neither of us have said a thing
Last edited by Liddybugs; 26-03-2012 at 13:54.
26-03-2012 13:56 #47
What is a shame is that some men are too dense or stupid or just plain arrogant to accept that their partner's private regions aren't their bl00dy property.
I don't say this often, but it disgusts me. It really does. Ladies, as a guy, I will normally persuade you most strongly to NOT kick your partner in the nads. But for this I will make an exception.
Go right ahead.
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26-03-2012 15:41 #48
God I can't get over how fussy some men are.. My DH takes it anyway he can get it...
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