I'm just saying that a lot of people, when feeling fragile, don't stop to think of how to word it exactly right at the moment they need to write it. Not even meaning me, but there have been others who go to write it then decide it isn't worth it.
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03-03-2012 23:33 #161
04-03-2012 00:05 #162
Why di I respond to threads in the Religion section? Because I am a member of the bh community and my lack of faith/disbelief in a deity might have me at the far left of the spectrum of religion, but still on the spectrum IYKWIM. I certainly don't set out to mock anyone.
As for people commenting who do not understand religion, I believe that it is possible to understand faith, to know scripture very well, possibly better than someone who has never had opportunity to question their beliefs.
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So when you've done that, and someone comes in with no real contribution but to mock religion, they are essentially mocking the person.
And when I say it wasn't debatable is because you can't debate someones very existence unless they are open and wanting to. That's when I say pick your audience.
No one asked to be told they should be medicated for believing in God or they're of lower intelligence.
Everyone is welcome in the threads and everyone is entitled to their opinion, you can say how you feel about religion and I have no problem discussing that, it can be done with mutual respect. When someone however speaks above you and mocks you for your beliefs then that's not right.
I think the surface is being skimmed here and people who were involved need to realize the people they were talking to had opened themselves up and therefore felt vulnerable, so you have to be more sensitive in what you say. If you think Simeon's a freak or an idiot, do you tell them because hey your just being honest? Or do you keep the nastiness to yourself because you don't want to hurt the person?
I think there are alot of people who are religious and wanted to come in and chat and express their beliefs but are turned off and too scared. And when your alone and forced to defend your beliefs and your circled by a group of women like I was the other night, I had to switch off and just stop responding because you gang up and set upon people and I don't know how you think it's ok to do that? When I said something to pretty much back off I was ignored.
So sorry but yous can keep arguing this point and your rights and what not, but some people need to realize they have bad intentions entering the threads and are only there to cause conflict and hurt people. And they aren't sorry, they enjoy it which I think is sad in their part.
04-03-2012 09:12 #165
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04-03-2012 09:31 #166
Religion has hurt people both in the past and now. Other people's faith has hurt people. Families ostracise family member's if they do not "toe the line" everyday. This SHOULD be talked about. Otherwise it will just continue on generation after generation.
Religion and the affects of religion should be debated. Religion unfortunately is a part of our government and our schools and many other parts of life. We should not just back down and say well that is their religion and faith and therefore excuse bad behaviour. This should be debated and talked about. People who have views not in line with the masses should not have to deal with the consequences of people's beliefs around them.
For example when people's faith and religious choices impact on others. Gay marriage is a great example of this.
Hold yourself steadfast in your faith, but don't expect other people to have to live in line with your beliefs. Respect yes, but not debate...well no.
MMm not real sure if that makes sense! But I have to go out so can't sit here and play around with my wording.
04-03-2012 09:31 #167
I personally won't state my beliefs in the current open thread, because it seems it's only there for others to laugh at, pull apart, or make a mockery of. So as a result I can't enter it. Many others feel the same way. It's very sad.
04-03-2012 09:40 #168
What's SAD is that THIS thread is still going.
The point was made that some people have been rude and should be more respectful. The general consensus was agreement.
So why is it still being raked over the coals? There's been no new points made for pages and pages... I'm flabbergasted that every time it seems like it's going to die down, a 'new' (read: same as three pages ago) comment is made, and it all starts the same cycle again.
I give up, this thread isn't interesting anymore, nor is it an open and frank discussion. It's just a few people ranting over and over about the same thing.
I don't mean to be offensive, and I'm sorry if my forthrightness offends anyone. But SOMETIMES it has to be said as it's meant. I kept reading because some people were making interesting points. Solutions were offered but it's always "Oh no but... We can't do that because..." If you don't want solutions, why bother complaining about a problem? (That's rhetorical, although I'm CERTAIN I'm going to get a response to it anyway, and it'll be something that's already been said five times over).
Have fun talking circles
04-03-2012 09:44 #169
04-03-2012 09:54 #170
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